r/asktransgender • u/JustAvaXP • 2d ago
So is this the female experience?
So I'm 21f I've recently moved and I've started going on walks and two separate times within the few times I've gone walking the first time this guy honks at me as I'm going on the opposite side then turns around asks if I want a ride I tell him no and he asks again and I say no and walk away and then he leaves and comes back to ask for my number the second time the guy in a pickup truck drives past me honks and I keep walking and he kept going past but I noticed he stopped a little bit away and honked more and I keep walking having a creeping suspicion he's going to come back and sure enough he drives past me pulls into a driveway in reverse and stares at me for a second and I'm kinda just like walking and I feel like REALLY uncomfortable at this point but luckily he just drove past me again so is this how the average female experience?
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u/SiteRelEnby she/they, pansexual nonbinary transfemme engiqueer 2d ago edited 1d ago
Yeah, it does happen. /r/ewphoria
If someone is in a vehicle, take a photo of their number plate and send it to someone you trust.
Also, get a pepper spray, and a practice canister. Practice how you would draw and use it with the practice canister and a friend. If you are in a mental, emotional, and financial situation where it makes sense for you, consider getting armed (/r/transguns).