Usually have hair like first pic but less greasy. Brutal honesty por favor?

This is probably the best photo of me I have ever taken and will likely continue to be so, and so I want to know what my peak was. You can ignore the second photo as it’s only for the rule.

More context but pretty much just what the title says.

44m ready to rejoin civilization after healing for the past 2 years after an 8 year relationship.

My 2025 NY resolution is 2 fold:

1. Get fit

2. Choose the adventure

I'm finally at a good place where I'm ready to put myself out there & reignite my passion & excitement for life.

To those ends, I'm working out & eating healthier ( while giving myself grace & accepting change takes time & effort )

& l'm rediscovering the passion of my youth where l'm choosing to take action ( so less flaking & more engaging with projects & challenges I enjoy - like getting back into the entertainment industry )

Be gentle

or be rough,

Either way I'm here for it :)

Ps. I only cry sometimes meow so no worries lolol

Pps. The 1st selfie was taken after this year's NYE festivities on 1/1/25 I'm wear contacts & I like to change it up so I'm wearing blue contacts in that pic ( but as you can see, my eyes are brown af lol )

Hi. I’ve had low self-esteem since highschool. I’ve been working on my appearance and just wanted to understand where I sit on the scale in terms of facial attractiveness .