Got diagnosed Autistic and ADHd (AuDHD). Feel like people can tell even though I’ve gotten to 53 without anyone telling me.

Just feel weird and unattractive.

My Plan this year is to start putting castor oil on my eyebrows, workout+eat healthy and lose face fat and gain muscle for more definition. Move out of my parents house with my business. Get a girlfriend or at least start dating.

There is more i want to do, but these are the main things. I think i might grow my hair out more still. I used to wear it long when I was little, and I want to bring back the joyful me.

Honestly, I feel kind of gross looking, and unhappy with my progress in life. Time is going by quick.

I don't have many friends either. I kind of outgrew gaming (i was the top 0.01% Of Rocket League player. I wasted 5k hours on that crap).

That resulted In losing friends. They are gamers and don't relate. I'm also not good enough to fit in with a new groups of friends, and don't know where to meet people since I didn't go to college (I had almost 5.0 in school, but decided i didn't care for anything in college)

Anyways... just feeling a bit alone, insecure and lost.

(I tried to add more pictures but could not 😞)

I was in a 10 year relationship and 5 year marriage with a serial cheater and dismissive avoidant. She made me feel ugly, unwanted, and not good enough. I have a broken image of myself and my worth.

Thanks in advance for kind, uplifting, genuine reflections and inspirations. Trying to let in some gentleness to mix in with all of the intensity of life. ✨🌎🍃🌔✨

I (f18) had a horrible day and I hate my hair so much. Would appreciate any nice words. :,) Or any advice on how to make it better.

After a difficult December I'm a week into knowing my wife wants to divorce. Together for 7.5 years, married for nearly 3, despite the smile, I'm as sad as I've ever been. Joined a men's mental health group which has helped massively and given me a sense of self in being able to be there for others, but none of that eliminates the sadness I'm feeling. Cheer me up, please!

In the public everyday and speak with attractive women all the time being in the restaurant repair trade. My acne scars cause serious insecurities. Hard to have confidence looking like me. Help