r/LosAngeles • u/DecentLiterature3366 • Aug 23 '21
Cougar dens/hotspots in LA county? I have a thing for older women lol. Nightlife
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Aug 23 '21
Bullpen Redondo Beach.
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u/onaspaceship Aug 23 '21
Oh god. I’ve had some times there.
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u/limache Aug 23 '21
What’s it known for? It looks like a steak restaurant so I’m confused
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u/JohnnyC13 Aug 23 '21
The Bullpen is where bored housewives, divorcées and other assorted rich women from PV and the beach communities gather to get drunk and look for young dudes.
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u/brownhaircurlyhair Aug 23 '21
At one point one of my grandma's friends knew the piano player who performed there, but my grandma refused to ever see him play. I am now starting to understand why.
I knew it was a "pick up" place (grandma's words not mine), but didn't realize the reputation was that strong.
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u/thedailyrant Aug 23 '21
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u/zlantpaddy Aug 23 '21
]BickNlinko 3 points 4 years ago We call it The Wrinkle Room for this reason.
too good
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u/Strict-Square456 Aug 23 '21
Had to laugh at this one. Im a life long south bay resident and back in my day..like 20 yrs ago this place had “mature” cougars. We were talking 50 and 60s. Have fun. Good old school dark leather booth steak place.
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Aug 23 '21
honestly most spots in Redondo beach would fit the bill
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u/Sickle_and_hamburger Aug 23 '21
South bay is prime cougar hunting territory if you are into it....
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Aug 23 '21
Go to a 80s rock band concert.
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u/HisPetBrat Aug 23 '21
Went to an AC/DC cover band show and had a gilf proposition me for a threesome. Solid advice right here!
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u/Dcanseco Aug 23 '21
Best advice I never knew I knew. Went to an 80’s bar and had 2 ladies chilling with us by end of the night
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u/Won_Doe Long Beach Aug 23 '21
lol. Went to an 80's bar in OC bar sometime ago. Cool spot for sure, some fun peeps there but ya, def some older folk in the house as well!
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u/1Xecaps1 Aug 23 '21
Why an 80s concert?
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u/lSergiol Aug 23 '21
It’s the same reason why you’ll see millennials in 00s concerts in the future, for nostalgic reasons.
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u/TMSXL Aug 23 '21 edited Aug 23 '21
Sagebrush Cantina, Calabasas.
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u/Elysiaa Lawndale Aug 23 '21
Seconded. A friend of mine goes there a lot and it looks like it's wall to wall with ex groupies. But also ex roadies who are now in Van Halen tribute bands.
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u/mandiefavor Aug 23 '21
Yup! There are always drunk cougars stumbling around the patio. I’ve been one of them on a couple occasions, haha.
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u/El_Beasg Aug 23 '21
Really how do you go cougar hunting in that restaurant?
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u/TMSXL Aug 23 '21
It basically turns into a club at night (during weekends) There’s a huge dance area, live bands, everything.
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u/doozle Aug 23 '21
I was going to suggest hiking in the Santa Monica mountains when I realized exactly what kind of cougars you were talking about.
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u/grannysmithcrabapple Aug 23 '21
To be fair I think a lot of cougars do like to go hiking in the Santa Monicas.
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u/specialduckie8 Aug 23 '21
Lmfao! My first thought, as well. I interpreted OP’s question a little too literally.
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u/Leikster West Hollywood Aug 23 '21
This is the kind of content I’m here for.
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u/Mountainman1980 Northridge Aug 23 '21
Conversely, I don't come here for this content. But I certainly stay for it. I love this town hahaha...
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u/PlasticGirl Mid-Wilshire Aug 23 '21
Select an age range. Calculate how many years ago they were 18-20. Find musicians popular around that time. Go to those concerts. Like start with Bon Jovi.
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u/Arsene3000 Aug 23 '21
This reminds me… has anyone else noticed how college educated white chicks have an encyclopedic knowledge of classic rock? Doesn’t matter when they were born either—they could be enrolled right now and they’ll somehow know of Steely Dan’s greatest hits.
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u/SR3116 Highland Park Aug 23 '21 edited Aug 23 '21
Their dads are likely all the target audience age for classic rock.
The great irony is that Steely Dan were always singing about how college age girls didn't know good music, like in Hey Nineteen.
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u/A_Punchbowl_Turd Aug 23 '21
Paoli’s in Woodland Hills for sure. Salt Creek in Santa Clarita also has a cougie reputation
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u/PotatoFro Aug 23 '21
Bonus points if you can sing… Karaoke night at Paoli’s is no joke. They won’t tolerate sloppy drunken Third Eye Blind… but if you can pull off some 70’s/80’s jams, you’re gonna turn some heads.
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u/glass_boxofemotion Aug 23 '21
Beach cities bars (Redondo, Hermosa, Manhattan) and Rockin' Brews.
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u/TheTimDavis Aug 23 '21
My landlord lives in palm springs. In 1960 she was a snack.
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u/dr_g89 West Los Angeles Aug 23 '21
If your wallet is full and you drive something nice, the bar at mastros is definitely a hot spot.
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u/A70MU Aug 23 '21
out of curiosity, what is considered nice?
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u/Gearjock Aug 23 '21
Steakhouse or Ocean Club? Also, are the drinks any good? I've been looking for a place to cruise my Tbird to.
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u/dr_g89 West Los Angeles Aug 23 '21
I can’t speak to the ocean club but I’ve spent some time at the steakhouse. I’d bet both have comparable crowds. Drinks are ok, wine selection is pretty fantastic if that more your thing. Prices are… inflated. You definitely pay for the location / atmosphere.
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u/NeuroticTendencies Aug 23 '21
Is Steel Panther playing anywhere? Lol
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u/darthjenni Aug 23 '21
I know Yachtley Crew has started playing gigs again. Ladies love the soft rock.
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u/SouperButtz Aug 23 '21
Most of these answers are for senior citizens. If that’s what OP meant by older, more power to them.
If you instead meant like 40ish, please let me know when you get a good answer.
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u/Yotsubato Aug 23 '21
40 year old women hang out where late 20s and 30s hang out. They don’t act like they’re 40 until they’re 50
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u/PinataPower9 Aug 23 '21
Leisure World in Seal Beach!
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u/arvzi Aug 23 '21 edited Sep 18 '21
LOL too bad the front end security is so tight it's pretty much impossible to get in unless you're on the pre-approved list. Just gotta find one cougar who likes to party and then you're good.
Source: Have family with places inside LW
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u/Nervous-Worry6092 Aug 23 '21
Santa Fe Springs Swapmeet on a band night. Come on, these are too easy.
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u/SilverLakeSimon Aug 23 '21
How about one of those buses that take people to the Indian casinos on Tuesday mornings?
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u/PairPearPare Aug 23 '21
Listen to u/SilverLakeSimon, OP! If you're lookin' for a steamy May-December romance, this is your answer!
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u/SilverLakeSimon Aug 23 '21
I also recommend watching Harold and Maude on your first Netflix-and-chill date. Or Netflix and nap.
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u/CAD007 Aug 23 '21
Etiwanda Roadhouse in Rancho Cucamonga
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Aug 23 '21
You’re gonna be my regular Saturday night thang. ROAD HOUSE.
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u/405freeway Aug 23 '21
Downtown Fullerton
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u/pixiegod Aug 23 '21 edited Aug 23 '21
There’s a bar there that reportedly roofies people…so be wary of that place for the time being…
The bar is called JP23 Urban Kitchen and bar…there was a response from the bar that “exonerates” themselves, but multiple people have reported the same story and it seems to growing.
I don’t know what the truth is here, but it doesn’t look good…and until it’s all settled it would be safer to stay away from that bar.
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u/pejasto Aug 23 '21
This is hilariously vague. V into it.
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u/pixiegod Aug 23 '21
I agree and have edited the post with more info. I honestly thought everyone in the area had already heard and this was a well,known thing…
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u/TonyTheTerrible West Hollywood Aug 23 '21
people are saying that about all kinds of places then recanting after the damage is done
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u/pixiegod Aug 23 '21
I did cover that in my post…like I said, right now…with multiple reports from different people over different moments in time doesn’t look good. So I would stay away until things shake out…
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u/peepjynx Echo Park Aug 23 '21
I was just there for coffee. Am 40.
launches self off random mountain.
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u/grandiloves Silver Lake Aug 23 '21
javier's century city, pace, anywhere in agoura hills, anywhere in calabasas, joan's on third in studio city, hot 8 yoga (any location)
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u/stefstars93 LA Native Aug 23 '21
Any local Ralph’s
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u/proteinaficionado Aug 23 '21
*Whole Foods, my man.
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u/stefstars93 LA Native Aug 23 '21
Lmao I considered putting that one but there’s a lot of young women that shop there, I feel, more than the older ones.
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u/proteinaficionado Aug 23 '21
Gotta say Ralph's is good too. Costco in Los Feliz ain't that bad either 🤣.
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u/somedudeinlosangeles Altadena Aug 23 '21
Yoooo. There’s a spot in Calabasas. I can’t think of the name right now. Stand by.
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u/Onepercentlessworse_ Aug 23 '21
Sagebrush?
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u/somedudeinlosangeles Altadena Aug 23 '21
I think that might be it. MILF vibes were heavy there. They even lived closed by. Take that for whatever it’s worth.
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u/ItsYourMotherDear Flairy godmother Aug 23 '21
Tell me more about this "thing" you have...
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u/Nothing_Scared Aug 23 '21
The Starting Gate at Los Alamitos. That’s a Sabertooth den
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u/Sagebrush23 Sherman Oaks Aug 23 '21
Hi! If you are looking for late 30s to 40s ladies, from my personal experience (40f) I would go to local "dive bars" that are well established. If I feel safe at a local bar, I'm all about hanging out at them and so are all my girlfriends.
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u/patrickstarfish772 Aug 23 '21
Women in their 30s are cougars? Oh sheesh, I didn’t get this memo.
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u/limache Aug 23 '21 edited Aug 23 '21
Hm she said late 30s, like 38 or 39.
That’s definitely milf age - I always thought of 37 as the perfect milf age lol.
If a woman has kids in her mid to late 20s, let’s say 28.
By the time she’s in her late 30s, her kids would be 8 to 10 years old.
That’s my logic.
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u/patrickstarfish772 Aug 23 '21
And women without kids? What are those? Cougar makes me think late 40s/50s. But to each their own.
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u/peepjynx Echo Park Aug 23 '21
Yeah I didn't think I was a "cougar" age... but maybe I am.
I feel like the Xennials are really in-between what society deems "cougars" vs "young people."
But according to MSM, I'm a "Millennial who is constantly ruining old-timey things."
PICK ONE!!!!!
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u/limache Aug 23 '21
I agree and I think it’s just milf vs cougar. I do also think of 40s and 50s as cougar but milf is technically a lot of variety of ages since some women have kids pretty young and some pretty late.
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u/Nervous-Worry6092 Aug 23 '21
If memory serves, Rudy's off of the 60 on Pomona Blvd. (formerly Love Hate/t.quilas) is a beehive for sure. Plenty of old cholas looking for a firme rola to dance up on their vato to, nawm sayin??
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u/throwaway966912 Aug 23 '21
I didn’t realize I was allowed to use this subreddit to get sex advice. 😭
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u/spiderinside Aug 23 '21
The Subway on Wilshire in SM. Got completely accosted a couple times despite being disinterested and wearing a wedding ring
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u/Nervous-Worry6092 Aug 23 '21
They travel in packs, the other day there was a whole flock of them at my job in dtla
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u/W8sB4D8s Hollywood Aug 23 '21
On the Thirty in Sherman Oaks.
The first time I went there I was 24 and a 45ish cougar sat next to me and asked if I lived near by.
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u/Monster_Kody_ Aug 23 '21
Bro Delilah in Hollywood, Also the Library bar downtown. Day time hotel pools in BH
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u/Usher_Digital Aug 23 '21
Bumble premium, age range 35-50, spotlight on Wednesday and Thursday nights. Good luck.
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u/Shot-Ad-624 Aug 24 '21 edited Aug 24 '21
As a Courgar always looking for a cub...thanks for the list of places to go😉❤
Edit: I'm queer and not into straight dudes
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u/proteinaficionado Aug 23 '21
How could I forget this one. Any yoga studio in Beverly Hills.