They are saying they are doing the big thing i.e. risk their life, but will they do the little things i.e clean up after themselves will they do basic chores.
They’re saying it’s not important enough to them that you have or will or would risk their life etc if you aren’t a useful roommate. Honestly I’d just leave her right there.
I mean I don’t get grenades lobbed at me daily but I definitely use dishes every day. I care a lot more about whether my life partner is willing to help with mundane chores than I do about them proclaiming that they’ll lay down their life for mine. If they’re not willing to help with the dishes why would I want to send my life or even an extended period of time with them?
“Without asking”. One person expressed their love and commitment and the other cuts them off to say they don’t anticipate her needs quickly enough. He needs to let her find that domestic servant.
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u/MundaneKiwiPerson 1d ago
They are saying they are doing the big thing i.e. risk their life, but will they do the little things i.e clean up after themselves will they do basic chores.