That is a super nice thing you're doing! A well deserved extra tip for the delivery guys.
I get that you're annoyed he's coming back without deliveries. That's not what this is for. You're not a food bank. He's not welcome and thus is trespassing.
I don't know what the best course of action is. Try to catch him again next time, only give him something extra. 'Because he needs it'. He'll either appreciate it a lot (because he does need it), or be embarrassed by it (because he doesn't)...
It'll open up the conversation and maybe you can help (if he needs it) by finding other means for him, or it'll deter him (killing with kindness and compassion)
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u/Drazilou 1d ago
That is a super nice thing you're doing! A well deserved extra tip for the delivery guys.
I get that you're annoyed he's coming back without deliveries. That's not what this is for. You're not a food bank. He's not welcome and thus is trespassing.
I don't know what the best course of action is. Try to catch him again next time, only give him something extra. 'Because he needs it'. He'll either appreciate it a lot (because he does need it), or be embarrassed by it (because he doesn't)...
It'll open up the conversation and maybe you can help (if he needs it) by finding other means for him, or it'll deter him (killing with kindness and compassion)