r/pansexual Mar 08 '21

Discussion Clarification on rule 6

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Hey, pancakes! Now that we’ve passed 100k for a while, the subreddit has been even more active than ever! The size of r/Pansexual makes it even more important to make sure this is a safe space for everyone. This includes minors. We’ve noticed an influx of thirst traps, straight-up NSFW, and accounts that exist to bait people to their only fans. If your account has an OnlyFans link, or any other sort of link to a site with sexual NSFW pictures, as well as if you have posted sexual NSFW pictures on other subreddits, please do not post here. This subreddit is a safe space for everyone, so let's keep it that way. Feel free to comment and interact with our community in different ways, but we cannot allow primarily NSFW accounts to post. Thanks for understanding! Accounts that choose to post anyway that have been verified as bait accounts by a member of our mod team will be banned. Thank you to every wonderful person who reported this to us so it wouldn't fly under our radar! Please continue reporting so we can make sure we don’t miss them.

-The r/Pansexual Mod Team


r/pansexual 5h ago

Selfie β™‘π—Œπ—‡π—ˆπ— 𝖽𝖺𝗒♑

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r/pansexual 11h ago

Selfie Dating

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109 Upvotes

Dating sites without men in them are really different, aren't they? I made profile and on purpose didn't use photos which makes me look especially nice. Just those where I look like me. And I never had more compliments and more matches before. That's incredibly flattering obviously, especially for someone of my age, I'm 42 This is my profile picture, I'm without any makeup and without a bra giving me nice shape or anything. Just me in the morning


r/pansexual 52m ago

Discussion Bracelets πŸ₯³

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So my bestie of best friends turned 18 a few days back and I made her a bracelet. I forgot to take a photo of it and I’m super tired so I’ll post it tomorrow. I looked at the bracelet needs and decided β€œwhat if I make another bracelet?”. So I made a pansexual bracelet for myself then I remembered my other friend’s birthday is coming up. So I made her a bisexual bracelet it came out way too big so I’m very annoyed but tomorrow I’ll make a transgender bracelet for her too because she’s trans and bi she just started taking pills to transition as well. I’m so excited to give the first gift to my first friend I’m making her a drawing in a bit.

Two different friends mentioned above. First friend got a bracelet and other stuff plus a drawing. Second friend is getting two bracelets a trans bracelet and bi bracelet.


r/pansexual 10h ago

Selfie Ello there and happy Sunday pancakes

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32 Upvotes

Good morning pancakes of the interwebs


r/pansexual 15h ago

Selfie Good Morning Beautiful, Caring Pantastic Humans πŸŒžπŸ«‚πŸ’•πŸ’›πŸ©΅πŸ«‚

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60 Upvotes

I hope everyone has an extra warm day. With the bitter cold temps & blizzard warnings. Please be careful & safe and warm. Sharing warmth πŸ”₯,smiles & kindness from the north πŸ”₯πŸ«‚πŸ€—πŸ«Ά


r/pansexual 9h ago

Selfie Happy Sunday Friends

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r/pansexual 14h ago

Selfie Madam Curious πŸ˜…

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40 Upvotes

r/pansexual 1h ago

Discussion On having a heteronormative crush

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I'm unable to know yet if my feelings for someone are more than friendly. What is making it super hard is I decided about 5 years ago to never again date cis men. Welp, as far as I know at this point, this particular person is cis het. Could a straight man really understand me as a queer non-binary person? But I am going to go ahead and get to know him a bit and learn more. Its been almost a year since I've dated. Has anyone here ventured outside the norm of who they typically date and had a good experience?


r/pansexual 1d ago

Selfie It's almost my birthday πŸŽ‚

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66 Upvotes

I am a little scared tbh :') it's my 18th birthday soon and I'm not sure if I'm going to make it out in life


r/pansexual 1d ago

Question ways to indicate I’m pansexual through text?

12 Upvotes

Give me like a set of emojis other than the colored hearts or short words yall pls


r/pansexual 1d ago

Discussion How to meet πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Friends, Pans,Extended Family in your area. I tried this & it worked!!πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ’žπŸ’›πŸ©΅πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ

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I know my area around my home pretty well from walking/driving. I pay attention to home's showing πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ.

Two day's before Christmas I went around to just the four streets around mine noted the add. I mailed them a Christmas/Thank you note for showing representation and support of πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ. I included only my name & add. From my home,car's (myself) I show my Pride 365 πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ no mistaking mine lol

I sent out eight & received eight back! Each one containing positive messages & contact info, invitations etc. Tbqh I was pretty surprised in a heartwarming way. I now have the pleasure to know thirteen extended family πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ in my area. All it took was reaching out & (Postage stamp). WoW!!

I often see posts/w/ the question how do I meet people like myself or in general πŸ€” This might be one of the best ideas I've had. I will definitely be extending past just four streets. With just thank you card's & words of kindness.

I'm sure we all home's,Apts around us showing support. Maybe something simple as sending a card or note can open doors to a connection/communication in our community. I understand this idea might not be for everyone. But it could possibly be a Pandamtastic for other's. πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆβ™₯οΈπŸ§‘πŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ€ŽπŸ–€πŸ©ΆπŸ€πŸ’žπŸ’›πŸ©΅πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ


r/pansexual 1d ago

Art Slut girls and their slutty V lines πŸ˜‹

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55 Upvotes

r/pansexual 1d ago

Coming Out Realized I was pan at the beginning of December happy to be part of the cool kids club

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106 Upvotes

r/pansexual 2d ago

Selfie β€˜Sup Pancakes! I’ve been here a while, figuring out what having long hair is like. Here’s my progress :)

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84 Upvotes

Hope y’all had are having a lovely start to the new year. ✌🏼❀️


r/pansexual 2d ago

Question Hi just here looking for someone to talk about Pansexuality and life with since I just came out to myself in December. Please no relationship nonsense just wanna talk as people and maybe later as friends.

25 Upvotes

I just have some questions about pansexuality and would like to talk with someone and understand what I’m going through and understand myself better. Because I live in a conservative town here in North Dakota so I’m definitely not coming out publicly for awhile at least. If this isn’t allowed in the group rules then I’ll understand.


r/pansexual 2d ago

Selfie Mexican queer Dom here

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163 Upvotes

r/pansexual 2d ago

Selfie Good Morning Beautiful Pantastic HumansπŸ’–πŸ’›πŸ©΅βœ¨οΈπŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆβ™₯οΈπŸ§‘πŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ€ŽπŸ–€πŸ€πŸ©Ά

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I hope we've all made it through the holidays with our sanity in tact. Let's have an amazing memory making weekend, filled with smile's, kindness,love, and caring. Always starting with ourselves first 100%! Then share those wonderful qualities with deserving of them.❀️‍πŸ”₯Grace of the NorthπŸ«‚β™₯οΈπŸ§‘πŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ€ŽπŸ©ΆπŸ€πŸ–€πŸ’žπŸ’›πŸ©΅πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ


r/pansexual 2d ago

Question Advice needed

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1 (20F) has been struggling with finding a partner since my breakup in high school. I'm not sure what to do I've tried the apps, asking people out in person (which has lead to a lot of rejection), being set up by friends (whichagain has lead to alot of rejection), and even blind dates (which have been weird 0/10). I'm not sure if there's something wrong with me or women are harder to impress but I feel very ugly and unattractive. identify as Pan, but I'm not really interested in dating men but I do have a better dating experience with them (likeon apps I usually get dates with them) but as of late I have only been wanting to date women.


r/pansexual 2d ago

Question What is attractive quality in a person for a pansexual from a gay guy

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From a cis gay guy 19 , so me and my ex pansexual cis man femme 18 , we been together for a short while, we messed thing up, mostly my false. It has been like a year now at that time he dated a girl after we broke up we didn't have great relationship afterwards, I didn't take the fact that he is pan seriously I'm tryna research into it, is it true I've heard that you guys don't attracted to the physical appearance of people no matter how fit buff only strictly personality? how do I get him to be attracted to me again then I have been going to the gym get more lean and stuff turned out it is a waste if y'all don't care about the outward appearance . What make consider a handsome man, what constitutes attractive then ,how can I get him to like me again . Can someone give me a real honest answer. Btw we are in the same campus sometimes we share classes together but he literally hasn't unblocked me we haven't talked at all 🫀


r/pansexual 3d ago

Selfie Me :3

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137 Upvotes

r/pansexual 3d ago

Selfie Happy new year

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37 Upvotes

Hello there and happy new year from the happy kilted goth


r/pansexual 3d ago

Selfie looking sharp

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r/pansexual 3d ago

Selfie clean shaven pancake cutie

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r/pansexual 3d ago

Selfie New haircut and I'm feeling more like myself than ever

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188 Upvotes

r/pansexual 3d ago

Selfie HNE

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83 Upvotes