r/nashville Sep 16 '24

Leaving Nashville Discussion

Have you been living here for a while now and are you wanting to move either because of the traffic, politics, home prices, jobs, culture or religion etc ? Please share your opinions because I have plenty and want to hear other's! Thank you!

Oh and where are you moving to?

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u/psychburn Sep 16 '24

I’m 50M, have lived in Nashville since 1978 and I will probably move asap.

The primary reason is that my friends have moved and making 40+ y/o friends with my niche interests (indie rock/film/art) has been extremely difficult in Nashville.

When I’ve tried, new Nashvillians tend to be younger and not into my bands or art or the belcourt. I mean…surely someone else in that fugazi doc last week is in the same boat?! ;) old nashvillians seem to have their crew from 1996 and don’t really need new crew.

But this is a universal middle age and/or me problem.

My issue with Nashville is that I feel like I moved to a new city without moving. I’ve researched many other cities and there are problems everywhere.

But imo Nashville is unique in that tourist culture seeped into the neighborhoods. I would never want to go to the gulch, downtown, or 12 south. Going to East Nashville if you live across the river is a bitch. And the style of tourism here (bro country, wedding, convention) is just awful to me. And most of the city caters to that. As does our gov’t. Anyway, I could go on. But I feel for everyone that once loved this once diamond in the rough city and has or is in the process of falling out of love with it.

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u/twinberwolf Sep 17 '24

I’d be down to discuss film & bands like Fugazi with you. I’m a married 33 year old male.

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u/blonderisbetter Sep 17 '24

Same. 37 female! I'll just listen and learn. Sitting in the waiting room... 🎶

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u/twinberwolf Sep 17 '24 edited Sep 17 '24

Take your time to answer. I am a patient boy.

E: I wait I wait I wait I wait I wait

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u/excel958 Bellevue Sep 17 '24

Everybody’s moving! Everybody’s moving! Everybody’s moving moving moving moving!