r/cats 1d ago

Why the bite? ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†”๏ธ๐Ÿ˜† Video

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u/BreathingGirl000 1d ago edited 2h ago

Love bite. Kittens bite during play to learn battle and hunting skills. Mama cats wrap their jaws around babiesโ€™ necks to carry them places. They donโ€™t break the skin unless they feel threatened enough. Biting is something cats do with their family. You are in your catโ€™s family basically.

Edit: Thank you all those who reminded me that cats will bite their own and other catsโ€™ fur while grooming to separate any clumped hairs and loosen debris! Maybe OPs kitty was ensuring OPs cleanliness while grooming her cheek.

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u/qnhui 1d ago

My cat does bite me randomly, but it's very hard and often breaks skin. Does she just not realize how rough she is?

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u/HoldStrong96 1d ago

Depends. She may have never learned if she was removed from mom and siblings too young, in which case it is you that teaches her control. To do this (usually when they are young), I just hiss or โ€œOW!โ€ And remove my attention from them as soon as it happens. Eventually they understand.

Alternatively, you may be over stimulating her and she bites to say stop.

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u/meltyandbuttery 1d ago

My cats never reacted to me making pain noises (hissing worked but scared them so I do not like) but I found a soft, quiet, "geeentle" calmed them down. They are well enough trained now I can say gentle as a pseudo-command to break up a fight if play wrestling gets too rough or stop a jump one of them is planning on the other lol

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u/HoldStrong96 1d ago

Thatโ€™s great! All cats have their own cat / owner language ๐Ÿ˜ป

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u/Lumpy-Ostrich6538 11h ago

Thatโ€™s how my dog is. He plays very rough with me (super gentle with everyone else though) but the second I say โ€œweโ€™re doneโ€ he stops and expects pets.