How can I overcome lust.

[u/Spiritual-Alps-1513]

Hello I’m a 14 yr old Male and I’ve struggling with lust for a while and I’m trying to break it. I’ve heard to break lust i need to walk in the spirit and not fulfill the desires of my flesh. How do i do that? I’d really appreciate it if you guys could share your thoughts and advice for me. Thanks!

I just want to make it clear I’m not watching corn or anything . Just need to be more focused on God Than looking at Girls and stuff

[u/Byzantium]

Just need to be more focused on God Than looking at Girls and stuff

Your brain is hardwired and designed to think about girls and stuff.

[u/Spiritual-Alps-1513 → u/Byzantium]

I know but it’s on a way deeper level at this point and I started to do things that I’m not really proud of as a child of God.

[u/Byzantium → u/Spiritual-Alps-1513]

I know but it’s on a way deeper level at this point and I started to do things that I’m not really proud of as a child of God.

There is nothing whatsoever in the Bible that suggests nor implies that masturbation is a sin. Nothing. Zero, Zip. Nada.

Here is what the largest Presbyterian denomination says about it:

We find no evidence for any theological, psychological or medical strictures against masturbation per se. The medical myths concerning the ominous consequences that might follow masturbation (diminished intelligence, aggravated acne, impotence in normal intercourse, etc.) have long since been dispelled. On the contrary here is nearly unanimous medical opinion that no physical harm to the body is produced even by frequent masturbation.6 There is even some argument for the positive values of masturbation in re- lieving sexual tension and attendant physical discomfort in the pelvic region, in contributing to psychosexual development, and in providing a satisfactory alternative form of sexual gratification to single persons or to married persons during periods of separation, where intercourse would be inappropriate or impossible.

Masturbation is often one of the earliest pleasurable sexual experiences which is identifiably genital, we consider it essential that the church, through its teachings and through the attitudes it encourages in Christian homes,contribute to a healthy understanding of this experience which will be free of guilt and shame. The ethical significance of masturbation depends entirely on the con- text in which it takes place. Therefore, we can see no objection to it when it occurs as a normal developmental experience or as a deliberately chosen alternative to inappropriate heterosexual activity. We can see valid ethical questions raised about masturbatory practices which become or which inhibit normal heterosexual development. In most instances, however, we believe that masturbation is morally neutral and psychologically benign.

https://www.pcusa.org/sites/default/files/sexuality-and-human-community.pdf Page 14.

[u/Spiritual-Alps-1513 → u/Byzantium]

Ok but I still have a personal conviction for it. I feel it’s wrong and the Bible teaches if you go against your own personal convictions , it is a sin. Just like Alcohol . Some Christians don’t really have a problem with drinking as long as they don’t become drunk or addicted. But some Christians don’t drink because they have a personal conviction that the Lord has placed in them maybe because they had an alcohol problem in their past they just broke free from. And the conviction keeps them from going back to that addiction.

[u/Byzantium → u/Spiritual-Alps-1513]

If you have a spiritual conviction about it then don't do it.

Alcohol is not a good analogy. Alcohol harms your body and your brain. Masturbation doesn't.

[u/Spiritual-Alps-1513 → u/Byzantium]

“If you have a spiritual conviction about it then don’t do it.” I’m not trying to be rude when I say this but that’s the point of this post I’m trying to stop but it’s challenging and hard.

“Masturbation doesn’t” Yeah you’re right but it can become an idol in my life and cause a rift in my relationship with God

[u/PartyPacket → u/Byzantium]

It is a sin bro what are u saying😭🙏

[u/Byzantium → u/PartyPacket]

It is a sin bro what are u saying😭🙏

So says your pastor [I suppose,] not the Bible.

[u/PartyPacket → u/Byzantium]

bruh lustful thoughts are considered sinful, and it's these thoughts that lead to masturbation since masturbation usually involves fantasizing about something sexual or whatever

[u/Byzantium → u/PartyPacket]

bruh lustful thoughts are considered sinful, and it's these thoughts that lead to masturbation since masturbation usually involves fantasizing about something sexual or whatever

You do not know what the word in the original Greek language that is translated "lust" actually means. Unfortunately, few Christians are willing to tell you.

[u/PartyPacket → u/Byzantium]

What is it??

[u/Byzantium → u/PartyPacket]

The word is "epithumeo" and it means to desire something strongly, intending to get it if you can or could.

The word is also used for Godly men wanting Godly things.

But in the context of sex, it means that you are looking to have sex with the person that you are thinking about.

I seriously doubt that when you masturbate, you do it with the intention of getting or wanting a real person to have sex with.

[u/PartyPacket → u/Byzantium]

Haven't you ever thought to yourself that maybe you wrong and it is actually a sin? (why am I getting deja vu)

[u/Byzantium → u/PartyPacket]

I have considered it carefully, studied it thoroughly, and believe that it is insignificant in God's eyes.

If it was a problem for him he would have said something.

[u/AffectionateTea1614 → u/Byzantium]

Mathew 5:27-28.  🤷 if only He said something 😂 

[u/PartyPacket → u/Byzantium]

Alright I see. I still think it's wrong but whatever. interesting conversation ig. Have a blessed day (or night)😁🙏