Any ace/spec demisexuals around here? It’d be alright to run into one or two of yous if I were out and about. Like, just knowing there are others in this community would feel validating. I wouldn’t necessarily need to hang out, but that’d be chill, too.

[u/canooingdoob]

I’m just wondering maybe how many other asexuality spectrum individuals I might randomly find myself running into on a yearly basis. Do we have at least a percentage point around here? I bet it’s more than 1% around Eugene. Also, I am asking broadly asexual spectrum, but if you specifically identify as demi/ace I’d love to hear from you.

[u/Slugcatfan]

I’m a fat incel who’s short

[u/canooingdoob → u/Slugcatfan]

Thank you for responding, I really appreciate that you took a moment to reach out. Being tall is also a kind of personality, so you can be tall while still being short and people of all types are attracted to any kind of tall!