r/EUGENIACOONEY • u/annabelc96 • 1d ago

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She was showing all the food in the shop and then talking about how she doesn’t want to think about TikTok getting banned and that she doesn’t understand why the government wants to ‘control everything’

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u/Mango_Pocky Hater!!! 1d ago

Not her mom freaking out on her wanting to leave like she’s not 30 years old and Eugenia is clearly panicking

This was WEIRD

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u/DetectiveBystander 1d ago

I think her mom just texted “Let’s go” and had already mentioned to Eugenia that she didn’t want to drive home in the dark. Eugenia said it was a big store, didn’t know where anything was or even how to find the exit on her own. Deb was doing her errands with her 30 year old helpless child in tow. Eugenia decided to stream which Deb wanted no part of. And then when she was all checked out, Eugenia was no where to be found. So she texted her letting her know she was ready to go. Not weird at all.

I would be annoyed with my 30 year old child who needed constant supervision lest they wander off and get lost. I would also be annoyed if I had said I hated driving in the dark (maybe she has bad night vision at her age) and my 30 year old daughter was unable/unwilling to offer to drive home for me let alone if she delayed my departure from the store by 5-10 minutes because she was unable to politely let strangers know she needed to leave.

On this issue, I side with tired old Deb. And texting “Let’s go” is not “freaking out” by any means.

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u/Prestigious_Ad_5825 1d ago

Debra raised Eugenia to be immature and helpless so I don't sympathize with her.

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u/DetectiveBystander 1d ago

I think she played a part. But I also see her rolling her eyes trying to teach Eugenia how to cook, open a beach chair, drive, garden, hit a golf ball….and Eugenia is spastic and clumsy and ditzy and still isn’t able to learn. I think her starving brain and perhaps undiagnosed neurodivergence also play a big role in her inability to function as an adult.

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u/DilfRightsActivist 12h ago

I don't like it when people try to sympathize with Debra because this was all her in the end. This is the end result of her parenting. If she truly cared at all, Eugenia would have gotten help a long time ago, or she would try to gain a concervatorship over her and force her to get help.

Debra has never cared to actually be a good parent, and this is her punishment. I have no sympathy for her because she dug herself into this hole and has no desire to get out.