r/TheNightFeeling Jul 25 '22

The Downsides of Growth: A Sincere Request for Your Help to Make Sure /r/TheNightFeeling Remains a Special Place

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Hi everyone, I’m Worchester, the creator and sole moderator of /r/TheNightFeeling. We've been growing a ton recently with more than 10,000 new subscribers joining in just the past two months. This growth has been amazing, but it has brought some real downsides I wanted to discuss.

As many people know, it’s common for subreddits to lose their “soul” as they grow larger. If you take a look at subs that were focused on a specific idea like /r/liminalspace, /r/creepy, and many other subs, you’ll see that they tend to lose what makes them special as more people join and submit generic content that doesn’t quite fit. I find this is particularly true for subs that focus on pictures.

I love /r/TheNightFeeling and the community here; it’s my favorite place on the internet. Its uniqueness is precious to me. It's a delight for me every time a new person gets excited as they discover this place dedicated to such a personal and obscure feeling. You can find a few examples of my favorite reactions here:

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As the creator and moderator, I can't help but see it as my duty to defend the "soul" of this precious little corner of the internet. I want it to remain a place that people get excited to discover and visit.

For that reason, I intend to become more strict in my moderation when removing pictures and videos that (in my view) don’t quite fit the feeling, including some at the top of all time of this subreddit. This may result in some hurt feelings. I've held off on removing a fair number of highly upvoted posts in the past out of concern that I'd offend the posters and those users who may have liked them. But, if this place is to remain unique, I don't think I can or should continue that way.

The Night Feeling is a feeling of peaceful melancholy, a feeling that makes you yearn and feel sad and hopeful at the same time. The reason /r/TheNightFeeling has the name "the night feeling" is because it's commonly felt at night. However, the key feelings are thoughtfulness, nostalgia, melancholy, and introspection, regardless of the time of day.

This is where I'd like to ask for all your help and support, users of /r/TheNightFeeling. Please report posts that don't contain/communicate the feeling, even if they're genuinely awesome photos of the nighttime. Getting a list of reports is useful for two reasons: It helps me discover posts that don't fit, and it also helps me feel more sure that a given removal decision is correct.

It's possible that some of you may not experience The Night Feeling and maybe joined simply because you like the pretty pictures of the nighttime. In that case, I'd highly recommend you check out subs like /r/outrun, /r/nightwalk, or /r/ImaginaryCityscapes. Or, of course, feel free to stick around to see submissions from our users.

I'd like to spend the next little bit showing images and text that really blast me with that feeling.

Two text posts:

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Text posts are my favorite, by the way. I request more text posts from anyone who may have an experience or thought that they'd like to share!

And a few of my favorite images:

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I realize that this means that a significant part of the removal decision will rely on my own subjective opinion, but at this point, the choice is between a generic /r/TheNightFeeling and a night feeling that follows my judgment. I hope I've won enough trust from you all to make that call. Regardless, your reports will absolutely factor into my decisions.

If your post was removed by me in the past or in the future and I left a link to this post, I'd like to apologize for any bad feelings it may cause you. I highly encourage you to send me a DM if you'd like to have a conversation, and I'd be happy to oblige.

Thanks for being such a kind, compassionate, and thoughtful community. I hope we can maintain that spirit as we continue to grow. Wherever you are, I hope the stars are beautiful tonight.

-James Worchester


r/TheNightFeeling Mar 04 '22

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r/TheNightFeeling 3h ago

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r/TheNightFeeling 22h ago

Snowy nordic village

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r/TheNightFeeling 8h ago

Dawn in the Alps

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r/TheNightFeeling 2h ago

Walking….

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r/TheNightFeeling 7h ago

The train station

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198 Upvotes

r/TheNightFeeling 1d ago

The Towers.

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r/TheNightFeeling 17h ago

The docks

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r/TheNightFeeling 20h ago

Cool Night Air

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r/TheNightFeeling 12h ago

Wandering Around Downtown

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r/TheNightFeeling 20h ago

I went out for a walk last night, cold be damned.

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r/TheNightFeeling 5h ago

From the highest balcony

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It was nice


r/TheNightFeeling 20h ago

Night walk down the canal

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r/TheNightFeeling 4h ago

Night Time Rejuvenation

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After a long day, and you’re feeling skeletal, the glow of yard lights gives you back your soul.


r/TheNightFeeling 14h ago

Summer nights have good feelings 🥰

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r/TheNightFeeling 11h ago

Those cold pre-dawn January walks

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r/TheNightFeeling 1h ago

Bucharest, Romania

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r/TheNightFeeling 1h ago

Last Summer

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r/TheNightFeeling 16h ago

First snow

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r/TheNightFeeling 2h ago

Snowin’…

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r/TheNightFeeling 14h ago

Winter night drive

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r/TheNightFeeling 5h ago

Simply Breathtaking!🌻

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12 Upvotes

r/TheNightFeeling 39m ago

The flour mill in the night

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r/TheNightFeeling 17h ago

This quiet night…

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96 Upvotes

r/TheNightFeeling 20h ago

Midnight In Paris

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r/TheNightFeeling 20h ago

Silent

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148 Upvotes