r/Assistance Jul 07 '24

$1628 in two days or my life is over REQUEST

I tried to make a new life for myself after my ex-fiancé ruined everything, lied, took my family and friends from me, so i had to relocate, i got an apartment and rented a car through uber-hertz to make money, eventually just doing it full time.

I overworked myself and got sick, i couldn't keep up with the payments for the car rental as i was paying $328 a week since january, had to return it as i was 5 weeks overdue, but i needed to eat of course, i was given a payment plan for my rent June, barely made it with the money i have left, but i had two days to barely breathe before i received another letter on the 5th of July that i have 3 to make up my outstanding balance of $1628 (rent, utilities, and 211 left over from June), before im filed for eviction and there will be a forced repossession of my unit on the 8th of July.

On the 15th of June i had attempted calling around local human and social services, churches, 211, etc. A lot of places i've heard nothing back from. One place i had went in physically and they wanted me to apply for Medicaid and/or SNAP first and i have yet to get a notice of approval. Another building was only offering assistance for first months rent/deposit, and i wasn't eligible as i've been here since Jan.

Anything, im open to anything, I'll DO anything. I have absolutely no one, if this is taken from me, I'll be out in the streets, i have no idea what to do. Please i just need someone, anyone even if it means chatting, I don't care i'm just scared that i've failed and wasn't meant to have a normal life. What can i even do next?

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u/AdOverall1863 Jul 15 '24

Wow, $328 a WEEK? What kind of car was it? Should've returned it at the first missed payment.

In 2018 I got sick (beginning of Parkinson's), 2019 I lost my job and health insurance while in the hospital for a week. The atty I worked for was an ass. Fired me via email. Couldn't make rent on my condo for March and April. Easter Sunday I was served eviction papers. Went to court 2 weeks later, judge gave me 10 days to vacate. I pleaded for 3 weeks due to my disability. Nope, 10 days. Lost the condo. Wound up moving in with my mom who needed 24hr care. Her 5th nurse had just quit. Bedridden, diabetic, severely overweight, and Dementia. Took care of her for 3 years before she passed. 2019 I filed for Disability, was rejected. Appealed twice. Rejected. 2021 I started all over and was awarded in 2023. It's 2024 and I'm still very much picking up the pieces. I now live in a nice home with a roommate who's 70 and a total boomer lol. He bought me a decent vehicle (my Ford Fusion was falling apart.) I feel blessed to have survived the 2018-2023 shit show and am fortunate enough to have a decent roommate. Health wise, I've got a ways to go. We never know what will happen, I'm so sorry for your situation. Take one day at a time (seriously just get thru one day) and be conscious of what can you control at that moment and what you can't. Try and keep yourself grounded and not get caught up in the "what if" spiral. I hope you hanging in there. Don't give up. 🙏❤️

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 16 '24

that's so funny because i've had quite a bit of negative experiences from 2018 - 2023 and this year, I too am starting a new life for myself and trying to focus to reach my goals so i feel you there 100%!!

right now i'm just going with the flow of whatever happens to me, if i make it through and am able to keep this place without having an eviction on my record, then i'll make it through -- unfortunately eviction notices go on your record/credit report too

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 11 '24

JULY 11th 6:22pm UPDATE:

a local presbyterian church convinced my management/landlord's supervisor to hold off on filing; helping me with a grant/emergency fund of $500. I've also had some help from strangers irl/and one from reddit which I'm really really thankful for!! So now there's only have $928 left that I need, but that supervisor *really* wants me to pay it all by tomorrow, the 12th (which is my birthday go me lmao), I tried calling 211 again for my state, and listed off all the places that I've either walked to or have left a message/called, and I was told there's not any more resources I can seek as I've tried all the places they would've recommended me anyway. One collective, known as Just Mediation, doesn't get back to anyone within 15 days, yet I called them all the way back in the middle of June, so it's pretty frustrating for people who are in need of help who can't even reach an actual, live person to talk to.

I'll make another update tomorrow.

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u/lilfaerie Jul 11 '24

They can't evict you in 3 days, but they can file for eviction. Are you working? You might be eligible for general assistance (cash) through social services. My advice is to find a rental assistance organization in your area. It will take them about a month to evict you. Once they file and serve you, RESPOND! There are free legal clinics that help!

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u/Ps3udoooo Jul 10 '24

reading through all of OPs responses they seem very unwilling to try anything BUT getting free money. i’ve seen many good options that i would ABSOLUTELY take if i was stuck in this rough of a situation. i have no room to talk as i am not an adult or have any experience with living alone or paying bills. but facing “the end of their life” they seem to shut down everything that involves actually putting a plan into motion

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u/gamedayfields Jul 16 '24

I agree. I even called the sheriffs office for op and they promised she would not be evicted without a judge ordering it. I can’t get op to listen😂

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 10 '24

well friend if you were standing right in my apartment with me you would know i've called let's see, 38 different services and only ONE offered a grant that wouldn't even be sent out until July 15th, NOT even including to the 15 different buildings, collectives, and humanitarian/social services and law firms, but ofc you obviously have foresight and live in the area i apologize i don't know what im talking about

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u/lilfaerie Jul 11 '24

You can tell your landlord that you'd get the money July 15th. You can't get evicted in 3 days. That's not the way the law works.

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u/gamedayfields Jul 16 '24

I agree 100000%

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u/Ps3udoooo Jul 10 '24

look im not claiming to know anything about anything im 17 and not even finished with highschool. i dont know anything about finance or renting or anything, but based off seeing people’s ideas and they’re knowledge in it id take them without a second thought, i’ve seen ideas offered of joining the military, free schooling and dorms, shared housing you seem to ignore and or shoot down these ideas because “that’s too long term for me” you made the decision to try to rent and apartment and a car only working using uber deliveries, get a job and stop begging on here you have other posts from a year ago asking for money on here aswell. instead of looking for a quick fix dedicate your time to fixing your entire situation uber is not a job and will not support you ever.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 10 '24

it's almost like i mentioned that already gotten hired at another company and they haven't delivered my plates and welcome packet yet 😃

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u/Ps3udoooo Jul 10 '24

by plates, do you mean license plates? as in you will yet again need your hands on a vehicle? think long term

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 10 '24

transponder plates for delivering client vehicles for my job, it's fleet deliveries across the US, you install them as you travel to the client and take them off after delivery

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u/Ps3udoooo Jul 10 '24

i’m confused, your saying your delivering cars that are part of a fleet, are the clients renting them or do you not understand how company fleets work?

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 10 '24

oi vey, have a nice day dude

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u/SagetoGeminis Jul 09 '24

How did your ex fiancé take your family? Like custody of your children? Or they somehow convinced your family you are awful and your ex is not? I strongly advise against loaning this person any money, folks… at best they sound young and at worst they are simply irresponsible and life is catching up with them. You could have taken the bus to an actual job, or saved up enough while you were “overworking” for a down payment on a car to continue to Uber/lyft. Did you take 5 weeks off of work because you were tired?? I’m SO confused. 🤔😂 you said there was aid available for first month’s rent and a deposit. Maybe you do that now before the eviction process actually takes place and you have it on your record for 7(I think) years. Any time I have applied for Medicaid I received notice right away. Food stamps usually takes some time but you or they should have already reached out by now to schedule some sort of interview, whether it’s in person or online. You should have applied for these govt benefits months ago. I also suggest looking up local food banks. Goooood luck

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 09 '24

hope you feel better soon man

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u/SagetoGeminis Jul 09 '24

I hope you figure everything out and don’t become homeless and grow from this situation ✌🏽

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u/biggerperspective Jul 09 '24

Look up "free legal assistance" workshop, possibly at your library.

You're not alone in this. Keep your wits about you.

Have a go bag ready, or a few bins of stuff you can put in storage if you're worried you'll be locked out.

Look up shelters that may have space, or weekly hotel rates.

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u/Laurentattausmc Jul 08 '24

U haven’t gone to court yet? Then Yur fine, they can’t kick u out without a court order. This is just to scare u into paying.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 08 '24

as of 9:40am this morning, the 211 the assistance hotline is a pain, there's no way to get in contact with actual people

walls and walls and walls of automated messages and "leave a voice message and we'll get back to you within 10 days"

i've called 7 different places that was sent to me by an operator

at least i got until 4:30pm to figure something out

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u/Moonydog55 Jul 08 '24

You can also text 211, there's steps on the website to help you do it. I usually have a better response time by texting

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u/gamedayfields Jul 08 '24

Can I stop an eviction by catching up on my rent? If the eviction case was only for nonpayment of rent, you may stop the eviction any time before you are actually evicted by paying the amount the Magisterial District Judge ordered, including court costs. This is called the right to pay and stay. Note that the court costs go up if the landlord requests an Order for Possession, so it is best to pay as soon as possible.

Can my landlord just lock me out without going to court? No. Many Pennsylvania courts have said your landlord cannot evict you by self-help, meaning such things as padlocking your door, shutting off your utilities, using force to evict you, or using any eviction method other than going to court.

Where can I get help to avoid eviction because I owe rent? Your local county assistance office may have emergency shelter assistance for people who need help paying their rent or paying a security deposit for a new place to live. Many churches and community agencies also may be able to help. You should call 211, the United Way Hotline for more information on rental assistance.

If you are having trouble finding a decent, affordable place to live, consider applying for subsidized housing with your local Housing Authority.

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u/This-Problem617 Jul 07 '24

Message me, I can’t help financially. at Least not yet. But I know what it’s like to be homeless and alone. I’m here to talk and help you any way I can. I’m serious. You already have my friendship. Just please don’t hesitate to reach out.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

thank you ❤️

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u/Salty-Middle6496 Jul 07 '24

Well you blew it when you didn’t return the car on time. If then you told them you had Covid and you would start again soon ? Why didn’t you do that ? Debt goes up if you’re not working.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

I was very transparent with how hard i was working, how i was one of the few still remaining in good standing with hertz, no accidents or anything, and that i got sick I pleaded for a good 30 min they didn't care it's just business i guess

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u/Salty-Middle6496 Jul 07 '24

You said the cars rent payment was 8 weeks over due. And if you didn’t return it they were going to report it stolen.

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u/SagetoGeminis Jul 09 '24

Their point is that you are incredibly irresponsible. You should have returned the car immediately when you got sick . It’s a weekly rental. Explained you were sick. And that you would come back to rent again when you were well.

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u/sreno77 REGISTERED Jul 07 '24

Do you have a rent bank?

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u/Complex-Guitar7097 Jul 07 '24

Have you confirmed joining job Corp or the military? Would take care of the housing situation.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

not in 24 hours haha, plus that's a long term commitment for what would be a 2 month ish long issue

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u/Open_Cherry3696 Jul 07 '24

You can apply for a loan unfortunately that’s your best option right now if you need the money ASAP

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

with bad credit? i got a good payment history but bad credit so im not sure who would approve me same day today unless you have any leads

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u/AdThick7327 Jul 07 '24

Not sure where you're located but world finance

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u/Open_Cherry3696 Jul 07 '24

Advanced financial, Integra Credit, Paydayloans. The interest rates suck but they give you the money within a day or two.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

oofff i don't have a day or two, i have 24 hours at this time

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u/gamedayfields Jul 08 '24

You keep saying 24 hours but they are not evicting you in 24 hours unless you didn’t respond to complaint! No way a court would let them evict you in 24 hours

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u/Open_Cherry3696 Jul 08 '24

Advanced financial is immediate but they have the highest interest rate

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u/Open_Cherry3696 Jul 07 '24

Also possible finance has lower rates but they only give $300-600 at a time

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u/Open_Cherry3696 Jul 07 '24

The rental assistance is a joke. I had applied for months back and forth just for them to tell me they were out of funds. There is no help coming for us struggling. Best case, find a place and get the help with that place offering first last and security.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 09 '24

i agree, it's almost like they don't want to talk to us at all -- one number that i had called didn't even have an option for leaving a voice mail :/

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u/Glamorous1978 REGISTERED Jul 08 '24

I agree they are no good

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u/84UTK07 Jul 07 '24

They may not accept payments through the payment portal but I bet they’d accept a cashier’s check or money order. They just want to verify the funds are there. That’s how it has always worked for me after getting one of those boilerplate eviction notices. My apartment puts up that eviction notice when you’re only a couple days late on rent but that doesn’t mean you can’t pay it.

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u/Equal_Meet1673 Jul 07 '24

Do you have a Gofundme or payment app in case anyone wants to contribute?

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u/gamedayfields Jul 08 '24

I noticed if you look at her username she does have a go fund me

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u/oneilltattoo Jul 07 '24

i dont know if it will apply to you since im in canada and most likely laws about bankrupcy are different. but a few years ago i was served an eviction notice with 5 days to vacate, because of 3rd month late with rent, i contacted a bankrupcy firm, they took all my info and started the process (it required me to pay back some amount every month for 9 months, attend budgeting classes, would have to sell assers like car and such that i didnt have, and after process done i would be debt free, but with a tanked credit score for anywhere from 2 to 7 years) but whats important: IT STOPPED IMMEDIATLY EVERY PROCEDURE THAT ANY DEPT COLLECTION WOULD BE HOLDING AGAINST ME, INCLUDING THE IMMINENT EVICTION NOTICE FROM MY APPARTMENT. the back months of rent i owed were added to any other debts i had and was canceled after the 9 months passed, and i basicaly just got put back to square one, with 0$ dept to anyone and only had to pay on time from then on, and not miss any payment in the 9 months to my bankrupcy engagment.

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u/Thatcanadianchickk Jul 07 '24

I was not aware you can include rent in bankruptcy in Canada

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u/Famous-Paper-4223 Jul 07 '24

They cannot forcefully remove you from your residence without first going to court for an eviction. You'd have to be served the eviction notice as well.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

first, here's how the bottom text reads on my notice to pay that i received on the 5th:

"You are hereby required to pay says charges in full WITHIN 3 DAYS or to remove from and deliver up possession of the above address, or legal proceedings will be instituted against you to recover possession of said premises. to declare forfeiture of the Lease or Rental Agreement under which you occupy said premises, and recover all rents due and damages, together with court costs, legal and attorney fees, according to the terms of your Lease or Rental Agreement.

If the total amount due is not paid as specified above, [insert estate services don't wanna dox myself] as agent for Owner will immediately file a "Landlord Tenant Complaint" at the County of [my county] district court seeking a "Money Judgement" and Possession of Premises."

so it's not eviction, money judgement + a promise to pay -- it's literally you don't pay this? gtfo and we'll take it from you anyway and we'll declare you forfeit

also, i know they'll shut off my payment portal because that's what happened in June and i was relegated to giving the management office physical money orders that i would get from USPS

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u/NojTamal Jul 07 '24

Yeah this reads to me like "pay within 3 days or we will BEGIN the legal eviction process", which would mean you'd have to be served papers, then go to court, yadda yadda and so on for however long the process takes. Obligatory IANAL.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

it still would involve repossessing my unit anyways, which im assuming would be changed locks, electricity shut off, something in that vain, it's not like life is going to go on like normal for me once they go through with it

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u/Famous-Paper-4223 Jul 08 '24

No, they cannot do that. They cannot "repossess" your home, change your locks, or do anything without going through the proper eviction process. If they do not follow the law exactly, then you can easily fight it in court and buy you some more time at worst.

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u/gamedayfields Jul 08 '24

They 1000000% cannot do that it’s illegal. I called a random sheriffs office in pa and they said eviction has to be court ordered.

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u/camebacklate Jul 08 '24

They can't do that until the court rules on the eviction notice. They just want to get paid. It's costly to go to court and could take mlmths.

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u/Florida1974 Jul 07 '24

That 3 day notice is trying to get you to leave voluntarily. If not, they will start legal proceedings to evict. But an eviction on record will make it tough to get another place.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

exactly i can't afford to be filed and have that on my record, especially if/when i get the ability to look for a car

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u/myownzen REGISTERED Jul 08 '24

An eviction notice will not be on your credit report. Im not sure an eviction even will. Especially if its from a personal landlord and not a corp. 

To add if you buy from an individual you dont have to worry about a credit check.

You are worrying about too many things. This isnt a judgment against you its just a reminder to ease up a bit. As others have said you got a notice that in 3 days the process will begin. You arent going to get dragged out tomorrow w the locks changed behind you. 

Its a major situation, for sure, but you do have a bit of time 

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u/Samsquantch0719 Jul 07 '24

Look into eviction laws for your state. A majority of states in the northeast require the landlord to file a notice in court, you'll get a court date and have to appear before a judge, then the judge will issue an order with an effective date.

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u/Laurentattausmc Jul 08 '24

Yep, I had to fight one in CT n we have some pretty effed up laws, and I won my case bc they tried to do something crazy illegal, but that’s beside the point, they cannot kick u out until both parties have gone to court or if u missed the court date, then they legally win the case, but u have at least 15 days usually from the date they put on that paper. You will get something in the mail that gives u a court date to go talk to a mediator first and they usually try n work something out with the landlord for you to pay in increments or give u a little more time especially knowing you were sick and how difficult these times are today..that’s not even in front of a judge yet.. I didn’t need a lawyer but I recommend u get one, the 211 number will get u a pro bono (free) lawyer who knows your state laws and u tell them everything u told us on here, even cry a little, and they can usually work something out with the landlord. But u have to show them you’re trying and able to pay the rent eventually..

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 08 '24

but why should i even get to the point where ill get a court date, like thats not good at all

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u/NojTamal Jul 08 '24

Well no, it certainly isn't good, in fact it's no fun at all, but until the court proceedings are finished, and the judge issues a date for your eviction, you can stay where you are. It may fuck up your future rental options, but you have some time to figure where to put yourself and your things.

Your landlord is trying to scare you into leaving voluntarily, as other commenters have said.

If you indicate to them that you're willing to hire a lawyer and go to court, it could buy you some time. But that's a gamble.

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u/NojTamal Jul 08 '24

No, it's not, but the fact is that there is a long road ahead towards eviction, and until the court rules and orders an eviction, and sends cops with papers to your door, you are safe where you are. And you have time to make arrangements for housing or storage or payment or whatever. It's not ideal, but that's how the process works.

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u/L0verofPink REGISTERED Jul 07 '24 edited Jul 07 '24

Theres a rent program called flex pay that alot of people use. If you can't do that then I would recommend applying for a new credit card or 2 and paying half and half with both cards until you can get back on your feet or taking out a loan.

  1. Pawn shop. If you have a iPad, TV or any valuable items take it to your nearest pawn shop for quick cash.

  2. Delivery services. If you have a bicycle you can still deliver. I think uber even let's you walk in some cases.

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u/SalamanderTasty1807 Jul 07 '24

With Flex, your complex has to offer that option, and they run your credit to see if you qualify. Unfortunately, it's not something you can just sign up for, and everything is fixed as far catching up with rent.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

even with the rental car that i had, getting up to $250 a day involved at least 12 hours of driving, pawn shop took $80 for my tv, and there's no place rn that will give me a significant line of credit, let alone be approved right now -- renting this place however is fixing my credit

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u/SagetoGeminis Jul 09 '24

You need to reconnect with the family that was “stolen” from you and relocate BACK. You are not in a position to take care of yourself right now.

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u/KingCarterJr Jul 08 '24

Renting doesn’t help your credit it can only hurt your credit

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u/SagetoGeminis Jul 09 '24

Incorrect

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u/KingCarterJr Jul 09 '24

Please tell me how renting an apartment helps your credit? What apartment complexes monthly report to credit bureaus?

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u/SagetoGeminis Jul 09 '24

It isn’t reported as a credit line, if that is what you are implying. But good rental history does increase your score and rental history is on credit reports 👍🏽

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u/KingCarterJr Jul 09 '24

It does not. Look at your credit report and please tell me exactly where you see a section for rental history?? For it to increase your score it would have to be reported monthly.

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u/SagetoGeminis Jul 09 '24

You don’t know very much about credit reports if you don’t know that your rental history is on there 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/KingCarterJr Jul 09 '24

Literally Rental history is no where on a credit report. Are you delusional?? You are going to feel dumb AF when you look at your credit report or even google it.

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u/No_Bandicoot2301 Jul 07 '24

I'm gunna go out on a limb and say that OPs Financials sound like he'd get denied for a credit card. Or at least one that offers an immediate line of credit. He doesn't have any money so maxing out cards will probably sink him much further in the hole. Although I suppose I'd rather deal with debt collectors for a card than an eviction for my roof over my head.

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u/gamedayfields Jul 07 '24

Have you thought about going back to school and living in a dorm for a while? I bet you can get a pell grant from Pennsylvania.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

even if i had the money and time to go back to a school, what about afterwards? i would've broken my lease and or would have an eviction on my record, getting another car or place would take a good chunk of my life waiting

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u/gamedayfields Jul 08 '24

School would be free if you are this destitute now it would be free. You would get money in fact I bet. Work and go to school save up money when you get out get a job and live on campus while going to school. Meals are included.

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u/AbleDragonfruit4767 Jul 07 '24

This!!!!!!!!!!!!👏👏👏

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u/gamedayfields Jul 07 '24

https://www.pcadv.org/find-help/find-your-local-domestic-violence-program/ since this involved your ex and started with that maybe one of these programs can help

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u/SagetoGeminis Jul 09 '24

But they weren’t a victim of domestic violence, at least domestic violence wasn’t described in OP’s post. 🤔 ex does not equal abuser, unless they were, in which case yes, use these resources

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u/AbleDragonfruit4767 Jul 07 '24

Thank you for this

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u/gamedayfields Jul 07 '24

Check your states eviction laws they should give you more time than that. For instance in some states it can take up to 3 months and in others at least 6 weeks and that’s without delays.

https://www.ohiolegalhelp.org/eviction-timeline

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

i will say it's interesting they only gave me 3 days on my notice but let me check the note i have real quick

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u/WishOk7289 Aug 10 '24

You are so ignorant. You came to Reddit for advice. Reddit gave you advice. And you repeatedly tell Reddit they are wrong 🤦🏽‍♀️

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u/Shanectech REGISTERED Jul 07 '24

Can donate plasma for some income.

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u/Agitated_Use7742 Jul 07 '24

I need $600 until the 14th of July plasma isn’t cutting it lol

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u/Shanectech REGISTERED Jul 07 '24

2 times a week 50 to 60 dollars per donation if you new donations. Promo usually 500 dollars sign up. Get 100 per donation that's 200 dollars a week

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u/Agitated_Use7742 Jul 07 '24

Wait I never donated plasma.. ur telling me I can get $500? Is this true? I live in Illinois?

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u/Shanectech REGISTERED Jul 07 '24

They have promos so if the promo is 500 they pay you 100 per donation can only donate 2 times a week 1 day between first donation in a 7 day period. And if you have special rare antibodies then pay goes up even more.

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u/Agitated_Use7742 Jul 07 '24

I wish I knew this before it’s too late, I need $600 asap in like 6 days or so or I’m ffed.

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u/Shanectech REGISTERED Jul 07 '24

Just go monday closer you get the easier it is

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u/Agitated_Use7742 Jul 07 '24

I know but I can’t waste anytime I’m thinking of door dashing to make the $, I wanted to borrow but don’t quality for Reddit subs/my bank. Anxiety at an all time high.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

i've donated plasma before in a different state and i wish i could go through the whole process of donating in 48 hours haha

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u/gamedayfields Jul 07 '24

Google Steve Harvey and Joe vitale homeless story and look where they are now! It’s going to get better! Wait and see!

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u/yanaoky Jul 07 '24

Definitely contact a free law clinic! They are often approached in emergencies like this and can potentially help you delay the eviction by a month plus. Also research squatters rights in your state as you may be able to legally stay in the apartment for quite some time.

In the meantime: - task rabbit won’t make you that much that quickly but most of it is assembling ikea furniture which always comes with instructions and the tools you need to do it - mutual aid funds are sometimes available in larger cities and can be searched for on social media or local nonprofit websites. It may be worth it to reach out directly to direct service nonprofits (lmk if u have any questions about this I work in the nonprofit world and am happy to see if I’m aware of any resources in your city if you feel comfortable sharing) - searching on Craigslist specifically is great for cheaper housing options like rooms and apartments for rent and it’s often renting from people who can be flexible as opposed to companies

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u/gamedayfields Jul 07 '24

Did you contact any churches?

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

yes I did that 15 or so days ago

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u/DeeplyFlawed REGISTERED Jul 07 '24

I would have called back again because usually new funds become available at the first of the month. When attempting to find rental assistance, you have to be persistent. One phone call usually isn't enough.

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u/CheckIntelligent7828 Jul 07 '24

Do you have a law school anywhere near you? Doesn't have to be same city. They run free law clinics where the baby attorneys learn to be licensed ones (with oversight from real attorneys). If you can get representation you might be able to slow down that eviction or get them to work with you still.

Also, if your ex started this, maybe call domestic violence shelters. See if any near you have ideas that might help. DM can be financial, emotional, psychological. It isn't always physical and the shelters often know of a lot of resources.

Finally, have you considered renting a room instead of a full apartment? The reduced price might help you get back on your feet.

Good luck, I hope things turn around.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

not too sure if any of those law clinics would be open on a sunday, but monday i really gotta be quick about it because i have until 4:30 until they file

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u/gamedayfields Jul 07 '24

What state are you in

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

PA

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

check my comment on one of the newer comments!

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u/gamedayfields Jul 08 '24

Appeal. If you lose at this hearing but have a good defense, you may appeal to appeal to a higher court. You only have ten (10) days to file the appeal. To stay in your home during the appeal:

You must pay into court when you file the appeal either the amount of rent in the judgment or 3 month's rent, whichever is less, unless you can show that you are an indigent tenant, in which case you will only be required to pay 1/3 of your monthly rent to the Dept. of Court Records to file the appeal. You will then have to pay the remaining 2/3 within twenty (20) days. If you already paid the rent of the month in which you appeal or the Magisterial District Judge determined that you didn’t owe rent, then you do not have to pay anything to appeal.

Everyone is required to pay their ongoing rent into escrow with the Dept. of Court Records while the appeal is pending. If you want to appeal, you should get legal advice at once after the hearing. If you do not appeal, you can be evicted by a constable or sheriff in as little as 22 days after the hearing before the Magisterial District Judge.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

i'll cross reference this with my notice give me like 30 minutes

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '24

Not sure what to do but this life is far from normal. I really wish you had a vehicle. Vehicles make things significantly easier.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

Haha i tried pleading with the Uber-Hertz people that i needed the vehicle like my life depended on it and that I was responsible and do anything in everything if they could give me some extra time (plus i was one of the few drivers who hadn't totaled the vehicles or quit after a month) but they wouldn't budge + they told me if i kept it any longer it would be reported as stolen

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '24

That sounds about right an you did the right thing giving it back because jail sucks. Can you get money together to get a cheap car off of marketplace or make a post on a local group? Its barely a plan but maybe somebody can help?

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

i need to figure out to pay this before they file before i think about a car right now haha

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '24

If you need the money tommorow then you can find something to sell and scrape together enough money for a storage building for your stuff? After that it's the choice of friends or family (not sure if you mentioned it I'm dumb) homeless shelter, or sheltering somewhere..

What is the plan?

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

sold my tv for 80 haha

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '24

Ahh crap I very much misread and thought the car company wanted that amount.

Is there anything you can sell and yes but if you have a car you can make money by working a weekly job or a gig job or even posting about your situation on Facebook and say you are looking for work that pays daily etc?

I'm not one hundred percent sure. I was sleeping in a car this time last year and got a job in a warehouse with weekly pay (took two weeks to get paid so slept in my car those two weeks)

I was half asleep when I read this. You need this money tommorow.

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u/No-Giraffe-8096 Jul 07 '24

If you received a 3 day notice to pay or vacate, you still have time. Try to talk to your landlord in the meantime and work something out, but a 3 day notice is really just a formality, demanding payment prior to eviction proceedings. Eviction can take anywhere from 30-45 days. Many plasma donation centers have new donor bonuses. BioLife routinely offers 900 for new donors over 8 donations. Perhaps you can look into that supplementally. Best of luck to you.

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24 edited Jul 07 '24

management and I did work out a payment plan for June when i got sick, but they told me we're only allowed to have an arranged payment plan once throughout our entire lease, and of course, i used that one time option for June. Which is kind of messed up we can only do that once because, as long as they're getting money from me, I would think it's okay, and i was extremely consistent with paying on time too.

EDIT: plus once they file on monday afternoon on July 8th, they won't accept anymore payments from me to let me continue being a tenant but I can triple check that info Monday morning but it's pretty cut and dry to what it says on my notice letter

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u/gamedayfields Jul 08 '24

The sheriff I spoke with also told me you can pay the court they can’t refuse payment

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u/gamedayfields Jul 07 '24

If illness was a reason the judge shouldn’t let them Evict you he will give you a reasonable amount of time you might just have to have a note from the doctor

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 07 '24

man i wish it was a serious enough sickness that i had to go to urgent care, but it WAS serious enough where i had a blistering headache and shakes, and was not well enough to drive, this was end of May/beginning of June and there's no way i can get a note for that now

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u/WishOk7289 Aug 10 '24

You weren’t sick enough to go to the ER… but you were sick enough to not work for FIVE weeks?… things aren’t adding up here Op

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u/ThrowRArrow Jul 10 '24

Try calling the doctors office and asking for a post-dated note, or even any note at all about your visit (a summary, the date services were rendered, doctors signature, etc….).
But as others have mentioned, the landlord is seemingly just trying to abide by the law and that gives you at a minimum 30 days to figure something out. I believe that is in all states but I’m not a lawyer and this is not legal advice. Just do a quick google search for tenant rights and laws in your state and you’ll probably breathe a tiny sigh of relief.
Your life won’t be over; although it sounds like it’s just getting pretty overwhelming and complicated, and I’m extremely sympathetic. In my experience, knowledge is power and, if you’re anxious like me, it’s better to know what’s what and make an informed plan than to ruminate and panic while also picturing it in the murky distant future. If you want to talk, you can dm me. I’ve been in similar situations (USA).

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u/Electrical-Complex35 Jul 10 '24

if i'm understanding this correctly, i would basically be faking a doctors visit right?

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u/Open_Cherry3696 Jul 11 '24

No if you’re still having symptoms they can put the note for when you’ve been seen and indicate on that note when your symptoms began. ^ it’s not faking a note asking for specifics.