some fucking asshole: "learn to love it or you're making yourself the victim"
Alternatively, we could hold grown adults accountable and not try an turn it on me, because it makes me feel like shit to have invasive questions asked of me. If yo're not trans you have no place telling how to deal with shit you have no frame of reference for.
Ok fine, go come up with a plan to change every single person on this planet's behavior to make sure no one accidentally offends you. Im sure there is a realistic solution out there somewhere. But until you do, why not try what I said and try not getting offended so you don't end up upset anytime someone asks you a question.
You don't seem to get it. Dysphoria can give me a panic attack, fuck up my whole day, make me want to die. These invasive discussions bring up dysphoric feelings. I know i can't change every-bodies behavior, but i sure as hell have the right to be fucking mad about it.
What's your goal here?
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u/TheRaesoftheSun Jul 14 '15
Is regularly asked invasive and painful questions
some fucking asshole: "learn to love it or you're making yourself the victim"
Alternatively, we could hold grown adults accountable and not try an turn it on me, because it makes me feel like shit to have invasive questions asked of me. If yo're not trans you have no place telling how to deal with shit you have no frame of reference for.