I hope you know that the people saying only fetishists would date you are wrong. I'm an average sized lady with no issues dating someone shorter than me, or dating someone who isn't "able bodied".
If you're a dwarf who is able to accomplish everything you want to accomplish with your body, are you or are you not able bodied? How do you feel about that term?
Your thread turned into an AMA. Does that happen every time you say you're a dwarf?
I used to be pretty averse to the idea of being intimate with a non able bodied person. Then I got a degree in psychology and a minor in sexuality and took a class on sex and disability, which was fucking awesome and completely changed how I see sex. We watched one documentary where this quadriplegic guy fucked his girlfriend with his arm and experienced orgasm by having his ears licked and stimulated. Mind blowing! There are so many ways to have sex and be a sexual being. I stopped seeing non able bodied people (thanks for your explanation of that term, btw) as non sexual. I hope there are some other ladies in the world who feel similarly and wanna get to know you.
One cool thing is that you can write in complete sentences, unlike a large percentage of online daters, so you have that going for you... Which is nice.
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u/markoyolo Jul 13 '15
I hope you know that the people saying only fetishists would date you are wrong. I'm an average sized lady with no issues dating someone shorter than me, or dating someone who isn't "able bodied".
If you're a dwarf who is able to accomplish everything you want to accomplish with your body, are you or are you not able bodied? How do you feel about that term?
Your thread turned into an AMA. Does that happen every time you say you're a dwarf?