r/AskReddit 6h ago

What is the pettiest reason you stopped talking to someone?

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u/nellox22 6h ago

sHe tEXtEd lYKE dIZ.

I thought she was just too lazy to autocorrect. Turns out she did it all intentionally. Way too obnoxious.

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u/Plastic_Kiwi600 5h ago

I made MySpace statuses like that when I was 14 and even then it was way too obnoxious, even for MySpace.

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u/Unlucky-External5648 1h ago

Tom unfriended you.

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u/Muudz4 2h ago

Almost went crossed eyed reading thatšŸ˜µā€šŸ’«

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u/Boggie135 2h ago

Did she say why?

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u/BSnappedThat 6h ago

I quit talking to someone because they would always interrupt me mid-sentence. It just got to the point where I couldnā€™t have a conversation without feeling dismissed, so I decided it wasnā€™t worth the stress anymore.

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u/B0OG 4h ago

I felt the same being around the family. It felt good to finally be away.

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u/alex_5506 3h ago

Justified

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u/bunnycupcakes 1h ago edited 22m ago

I knew a guy like that and did the same thing. I thought he was just socially inept. Then I realized he only did it to me and I was the only girl in the friend group. So it was that and he was a misogynistic asshole.

A few of my guy friends realized way before me because I was naive and wanted to think of the best of others, so they were the ones to start pushing him out first.

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u/mixolydian02 25m ago

I do this (and try not to) because I get excited about ideas and become jojo the circus idiot wanting to share my thoughts.

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u/wifeunderthesea 6h ago

they kept calling the shark in JAWS a whale.

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u/PaintedLady5519 6h ago

Justified

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u/wifeunderthesea 6h ago

i kept pausing the movie and pointing to the shark saying "this is not a whale" and would show them pictures of whales and the wikipedia for whales. i would point to the shark on the tv and say "THIS is a great white shark. it has very sharp biters. this is not a free willy."

an hour and a half in, i FINALLY had them convinced until they saw that the name of the shark-hunting boat that quint, chief brody and hooper are on is called THE ORCA.

fuck me, right?

they immediately started doing that leonardo dicaprio pointing meme thing and i knew right then that i would never speak to this person ever again.

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u/Pitiful-Cancel-1437 5h ago

Was it Jason Mendoza from The Good Place?

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u/James_099 24m ago

Did you explain to them itā€™s called the Orca because Orcaā€™s hunt and kill sharks? Specifically Great Whiteā€™s?

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u/wifeunderthesea 20m ago edited 17m ago

i did not because i walked out of the room and out of my house and into my car to scream.

also, because i didnā€™t know that. that makes a lot of sense and i never made the connection until your comment, and iā€™ve watched that damn movie at least a hundred times at this point. thank you!

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u/InternationalPick163 6h ago

They literally call it a shark the whole movie, justified

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u/wifeunderthesea 6h ago

right! i pointed that out that, like "don't take my word for it.", but something was not sinking in. i thought they were just fucking with me, but no, they literally just did not understand that it was not a whale.

looking back, i honestly don't even know if they understood that sharks exist in real life because he kept saying how "the whale isn't real." no shit, idiot!

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u/lolasunshine 2h ago

The producers of Jaws fired their first director for this very reason!

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u/wifeunderthesea 2h ago

joking?

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u/lolasunshine 1h ago

No seriously haha the original director before Spielberg was Dick Richards

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u/wifeunderthesea 1h ago

LMAOOOOOO. i just googled him. straight from his wikipedia:

ā€After seeing his directorial debut, Universal Pictures producers Richard D. Zanuck and David Brown hired Richards to direct the film Jaws (1975). They soon grew irritated by Richardsā€™s habit of describing the shark as a white whale.ā€

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this is absolutely hilarious. thank you. shit, now i kind of feel bad for calling that person a simpleton. šŸ˜©

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u/davey_mann 3h ago

Don't forget that great shark movie called Orca.

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u/Tactical_Primate 1h ago

The disrespectā€¦

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u/GrandEconomist7955 1h ago

Who did you stop talking to?

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u/OdaNobu12 6h ago

They asked to borrow money

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u/West-Fish-9396 6h ago

Not petty

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u/OdaNobu12 6h ago

Eh it was the sum that seemed petty, it was only $150 but I've had really bad experiences lending friends money.

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u/AskewArtichoke 5h ago edited 1h ago

I recently reconnected with a high-school friend over Facebook. We chatted a little and things seemed fine. A couple weeks later she asked if I knew of any rent assistance programs; which I actually did so I sent her their way. Then another week goes by and she asked for $40.

Like, lady, I haven't seen you in 20 years. I'm not giving you $40. Then another week, and another request.

I unfriended at that point.

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u/Historical_Ad_6190 1h ago

Itā€™s actually crazy how comfortable some people are asking for money šŸ˜­ I just recently started tattooing full time, Iā€™m quite young (so most people ik are still in school) but Iā€™m making good money and all of a sudden Iā€™ve had random acquaintances from high school asking me to lend them $100 or whatever because ā€œtattoo artists make bank manā€, and even CLIENTS lol. Iā€™d only lend someone money if Iā€™m genuinely close to them and they donā€™t have any other means. So many people ask me before trying literally anything else

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u/Hellchron 1h ago

Yeah, fuck that. I'll happily just give a close friend money if they need it. We've pretty much all been in a tight place financially at some point. But some asshole on facey I haven't talked to in years isn't getting anything

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u/sylviaes 52m ago

Idk of course but it sounds like that could have possibly been somebody whose account had gotten hacked/scammed.

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u/West-Fish-9396 5h ago edited 5h ago

I lent a buddy 300 she admitted she never meant to pay it. I refuse to loan anyone anything now

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u/Spirited-Season5700 4h ago

I only loan money when in my mind it's basically a gift. If it gets paid back then it's a bonus, but it usually doesn't.

If I can't come to terms with that idea or I can't afford it, then I just say I can't. I wouldn't stop talking to someone over it unless they were rude about me saying no.

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u/chocolateboyY2K 3h ago

That's not petty. I've also had bad experiences in that aspect. Someone still owes me like $500 five years later, they will be taken to small claims if I don't get paid this year.

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u/davey_mann 3h ago

That ain't petty! lol

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u/barsmart 5h ago

My friend left her husband. I felt for him and tried to maintain a distant but respectful relationship. He showed up one day without calling first. Asked to use the bathroom.

Next day, I found a fake $20 bill in my medicine cabinet. The kind of fake $20 where the inside tells you all about Jesus.

Haven't spoken to him since.

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u/Gaazhagensikwe 4h ago

Jesus. I would HATE that.

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u/Bazoun 2h ago

In your medicine cabinet? Yikes

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u/ScaryAssBitch 22m ago

I used to receive those as a ā€œtipā€ when I worked at a gas station, and it made me want to flatten their tires.

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u/Pristine_Ad5229 6h ago

They smacked when they talked.

It annoyed me

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u/Quietus76 6h ago

I helped him get a job. Worked with him for a month. He was lazy AF.

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u/I_need_a_date_plz 1h ago

I would never get a friend a job at my place of business. I would be too worried about being held responsible if that person did not work out.

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u/Glittering_Pack494 6h ago

Their drama tripped my cutoff threshold.

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u/omgrun 5h ago

I didnā€™t like their taste in YouTube videosĀ 

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u/chikkinnuggitbukkit 1h ago

We need more info on this

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u/Boggie135 2h ago

How bad was it?

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u/BlameItOnGinger 6h ago

I was best friends with twin brothers all through elementary school. Connected at the hip. After 5th grade, before middle school one of them called me and said that we couldn't be friends anymore because I was ruining their popularity. I was devastated. I had trouble making friends basically the rest of my childhood after that.

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u/ad_nok 6h ago

Completely justified. Fuck those guys. Would have maybe been forgivable if they ever got back in touch later down the line and apologised.. but if not - fuck em. You dodged a bullet

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u/BlameItOnGinger 6h ago

Yeah, I honestly still can't believe they did that. I totally agree, if they had ever reached out to apologize, maybe things could've been different. But they never did, and honestly, I'm better off without people like that in my life.

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u/Lost-Wolverine-1988 5h ago

They got a Siberian Husky puppy after being repeatedly told it was too much dog for them, and then proceeded to rehome it when it was 6 months old. šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø

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u/ayatollahofdietcola_ 3h ago

That's not petty, that's reflective of poor judgement on their part.

I house sit sometimes for a friend who has two Siberian huskies, and I can barely handle those dogs, even on a temporary basis.

they are escape artists, and also, BITERS. Even the most well behaved husky is capable of escaping, running down the street, and biting you when they don't get their way. and they have the hardest bite of any dog.

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u/Lost-Wolverine-1988 3h ago

Yep. I had just gotten a German Shepherd the same time as he got the Husky, and I tried to warn him. Cuz like, there's normal puppy stuff, and you have to dial that to a 12 for a Husky. But nooo Huskies are SO COOL LOOKING and he just HAD to have one. Fuck that guy.

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u/ayatollahofdietcola_ 3h ago

They are beautiful animals, but they are not for the faint of heart at all. And we have some newer breeds that look like huskies, but don't require more full-time attention like a husky. So looks are a silly reason to opt for that breed.

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u/Boggie135 2h ago

Oh hell no. I'm throwing hands

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u/mistress_of_none 29m ago

I knew someone who did this with a boxer. We told her and told her and told her it was too much work for her but she responded by getting mad at us and then getting the boxer. Poor dog. And then she cried to us after rehoming it. It was totally infuriating

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u/jcocab 5h ago

Didn't stop talking, but stopped actively building a friendship once over a ridiculously petty thing. I was stuck working so I was late to the Christmas office party years back. The buffet was mostly devastated but I had gotten some veggies and half a wrap, as I moved down towards the dessert trays there was one peice of chocolate left on the otherwise empty platter when she swooped in and grabbed it looking at me saying: "these were so good - I know I'm such a bad b*tch". I thought 'yah you are'.

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u/bewell84 1h ago

Why do people think it's cool to be ruthless šŸ˜’ That was so rude for her not to offer it to you first or wait until you went down the line.

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u/fairyquad_mama 5h ago

He wouldnā€™t stop talking over my favorite song. After asking me to play my favorite freaking song. First time I ever ghosted someone.

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u/feemxlovely 6h ago

I stopped talking to someone because they insisted on correcting my grammar in every conversation, even in casual messages.

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u/bewell84 1h ago

I love good grammar and English, but correcting adult peers is a form of control and should never be imposed if the person hasn't asked. I imagine you would have felt so exasperated by trying to tell a story and they divert and diminish the whole thing with an unsolicited grammar lesson.

You could always quote Mr. Furious (Ben Stiller) from the movie Mystery Men: "Uhh...don't correct me...it sickens me."

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u/ccc1942 49m ago

That not petty at all. I hope it wasnā€™t a romantic relationship. Can you imagineā€¦

ā€œoh, you fuck me so goodā€

ā€œNo, honey, I fuck you wellā€

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u/UnknowableDuck 3h ago

When I told him Hot Fuzz was one of my favorite movies and he went off on how much he hated it, how unfunny it was. Just got off online messenger and never talked to him again. To be fair, he was also weirdly rude at the most random times.

Sometimes I wonder about that guy.

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u/Boggie135 2h ago

Nah that's not petty. He's a Philistine

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u/doubleRRflamingo 44m ago

You did it for THE GREATER GOOD

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u/Working_Grand_141 6h ago

His name was āœØChadāœØ

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u/Kappa1uk 6h ago

They told me they were a creationist/flat earther. Noped outta there!

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u/Aevum__ 1h ago

Dodged a bullet tbh.

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u/Boggie135 1h ago

I would have done the same

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u/kenZzZzZa 6h ago

Every time I looked at their face, I felt physically sick. Especially when I was eating.

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u/beautieslut 4h ago

I once stopped talking to someone because they borrowed my favorite hoodie and never returned it It seemed small, but it really bothered me and after multiple hints, I just decided to cut ties. Looking back it feels a bit petty but at the time, it felt like a sign of disrespect

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u/Magnanamouscodpiece 7m ago

Girlfriend dear-Johnned me and kept my favourite sweater. I'm still angry thirty years later, even though I might not fit the sweater anymore.

Ange, this song's for you. Fuck you!

https://youtu.be/XVk_e31dnlE?si=8EBuRM7V1tKS18of

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u/junktownchris 6h ago

He used tobacco dip.

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u/Gaazhagensikwe 4h ago

Awful. And they are usually so indiscreet with where they spit. Like a wastebasket, where you can see them! So vulgar.

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u/junktownchris 3h ago

Yep- and the guy hid it from me- he knew I didnā€™t like it, so that it made it worse. Dumped immediately

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u/FloorfullofLegos 4h ago

"Oh, that happened to me too" to like half of everything said.

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u/The_Docile_Anarchist 6h ago

They called me daddy in a public casual setting.

We are both males

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u/Grausam 5h ago

I cut off my children for the same reason. I don't need that pressure on top of this parent teacher conference.

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u/r3sitasilv 6h ago

Wtf lol

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u/kingtroll355 6h ago

Context & Clarity please

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u/Petermacc122 6h ago

I mean. Are you close like that or was it more if a random attempt at a joke?

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u/Kickinpuppies 4m ago

Haha! Were yā€™all a couple or just buddies? Either way this one cracked me up.

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u/winterflowersuponus 6h ago

I stopped dating someone because I couldnā€™t stand their laugh. It just grated on me too much, I stopped wanting to make her laugh

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u/Boggie135 1h ago

Janice?

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u/winterflowersuponus 1h ago

hahahahaha why did you have to activate that packet of neurones

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u/politicaldan 5h ago

JD, is that you?

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u/Cool_Wealth969 5h ago

They kept triggering me with their bad choices. So I'm around people with good choices.

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u/Robotniks_Mustache 2h ago

Dated a a girl for just under a year. We got along great.

My daughter is named after a famous singer that died around 20 years ago.

One day the girl randomly said with an oddly snarcky attitude that I'm lucky my daughter can sing otherwise people would make fun of her name.

We never spoke again

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u/Parish87 52m ago

Now I wanna guess your daughters name. Aaliyah?

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u/Robotniks_Mustache 22m ago

Good guess!!

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u/seekingthething 6h ago

Maybe not petty, but I stopped talking to my best friend because he was actively trying to hook up with our other very good friendā€™s ex girlfriend. I couldnā€™t understand that of all the women in the world, why he was so adamant about sleeping with her. He showed me text messages, he said theyā€™d hung out at his place once.. after that I just decided that heā€™s a dirtbag and havenā€™t spoken to him in 6 years.

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u/vergil_never_cry 5h ago edited 4h ago

Oh dear I had the exact experience with a ā€œbestā€ friend 3 years ago.

Dude was charming but terribly insecure, and desperately needs the attention from girls to make himself feel validated, which although not my cup of tea, was not a dealbreaker at the time

After he started dating a good mutual friendā€™s ex (who is also a mutual friend), and justified the actions by ā€œthey already broke up, and I donā€™t know the guy that wellā€, I told him that we are not the same type of person and should keep our distances from each other.

I deleted his socials/contacts after and we never spoke again. On the other hand, I am still close friends with the other guy to this day.

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u/Petermacc122 6h ago

I've never done this because everyone I talk to becomes someone who either eventually stops talking to me or even if they treat me poorly I can't walk away. Yay?

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u/vergil_never_cry 5h ago

Are you a people pleaser?

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u/Petermacc122 5h ago

Lol no. I'm a fixer. If someone is stuck I fix the problem if I can. Couldn't tell you why.

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u/Mysterious_Heron_539 2h ago

They insulted my dog

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u/Boggie135 2h ago

Unforgivable

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u/DiscouragesCannibals 6h ago

She had the temerity to like someone else more than me. (I was wrong and I deeply regret my decision!)

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u/beeg_brain007 6h ago

Late replies to almost being ghosted

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u/cosmicxxfeline 5h ago

They chewed too loudly while eatingā€”couldnā€™t handle it anymore. Petty? Maybe. Necessary? Absolutely.

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u/Competitive-Elk-5077 5h ago

They would only call, not text

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u/Boggie135 2h ago

Oh hell naw. Who does that

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u/AdorBubblez 2m ago

Had something similar, a friend I had only wanted to hang out on discord calls, and in a weird way they never considered texting as talking and hanging out

Ended the friendship for multiple reasons, but the last straw was them telling me to fuck off because I was too busy at home (had guests over) and couldn't hop on calls for like a week Yeah, I still texted them during that week, one day I also asked them if I missed anything, and they told me everything was good when they actually needed emotional support. Cue them telling me how horrible I am for trusting them on it

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u/Kismet237 2h ago

Friend (unmarried, no kids) of a couple years told me that I ā€œshouldā€™veā€ kicked my son out of the family home once he turned 18. I was like, Oh Hell No. Friendship over, never regretted it.

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u/Quenzayne 5h ago

Why does this mean you can't be friends with them?

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u/Various-Ducks 5h ago

Mine is because they're in their 30s and never learned the past tense of pay

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u/Turbulent_Tea_7811 6h ago

i saw him catcalling someone.

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u/InappropriateGirl 3h ago

She had a Gofundme for her dogā€™s surgery when sheā€™d already gotten/borrowed the money from her mom.

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u/Muudz4 2h ago

She asked me to buy her hot wings for her birthday

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u/Ok-Republic-4114 14m ago

Hahaha what's wrong with this one?

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u/Spiritual_Lemonade 6h ago

Is it petty to see someone's horrifying political stance which seems counter to the other things you already knew about them- and liked. And say to yourself "absolutely not!"

I've done some pretty extensive purges now and I'm not looking for any new friendsĀ 

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u/therealmonkyking 4h ago

No. People who say politics is a petty reason to not talk to someone isn't living in reality.

Like ofc I'm not going to talk to someone who wants both the people and the law to actively discriminate against anyone like me at bare minimum, or commit a holocaust against us at worst.

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u/readitonex 6h ago

They came to the office pizza party and didn't eat anything. When I asked them why they weren't eating they replied "I can't get fat".

I was so offended. I took it fully personal

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u/Boggie135 1h ago

Did they drink anything?

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u/strtjstice 3h ago

Was having dinner with a friend and somehow indigenous rights came up. We had never spoken about this topic, and yes they had right leaning opinions in the past but....

"Why cant they just get over it, and god they are so lazy living off our tax dollars. Get a job". I was stunned. I changed the topic, they circled back.

That was the last time I saw them.

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u/SmokeyOSU 3h ago

made fun of my alma mater. I'm from a small college town, went to said college, dude called it a commuter college. It most definitely is not. Wouldn't apologize, so thats it for me.

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u/kissxxsin 5h ago

I stopped talking to someone because he always left his messages on 'seen' and never responded until hours later

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u/Stachdragon 6h ago

They didn't take the pandemic seriously.

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u/Kinglycole 5h ago

When i was 7, i had a girlfriend in year 2. I stopped talking to her because i saw her interacting with a male, at the time, i thought she had another boyfriend. Turns out she did, and it was who i thought it was. I felt so betrayed, i risked Cooties for this wench.

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u/Spirited-Season5700 3h ago

In kindergarten I told this boy I liked his watch, and I will admit I thought he was cute. He told the teacher I was bothering him and moved seats. Never spoke again.

That's ok though because I found a new boyfriend who would make shadow butterflies with me at nap time. He was way nicer.

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u/Key_Day_7932 5h ago

They kept asking to borrow money from me.

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u/PckMan 3h ago

A friend did a really bad tattoo on me after swearing she could do it. There were several reasons why I believed her as well as several red flags that I foolishly ignored on the day simply because I felt it would have been weird to just cancel at the last second. Should have just done that. Ended up being a lot more weird and awkward that she did a shit job and wouldn't even own up to it. I just stopped talking to her which was a shame since we were actually good friends for years before that. But I was justifiably mad at the time and after a while it got too awkward so we haven't spoken in years.

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u/lifeischanging 3h ago

She constantly borrowed money, never paid it back, lied about everything, embellished everything, doubled down when I called her out on it, caused drama for her own entertainment, constantly cheated on her (equally as shady and shitty) husband. But what made me cut her off was when I lent her my moving dolly (box mover with wheels) and she never returned it and has ghosted me since. Still replies to my fb posts but won't acknowledge me asking her about it. Just admit you list/sold it. Ffs.

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u/chapterpt 3h ago

I'm nice to people to see how they respond. If it's less than neutral I typically buzz off.

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u/donnerpartytaconight 2h ago

She had a z26 Baretta and would talk so much shit about how fast it was.

Without any sort of instigation. Just brought it up at any lull in conversation. A bunch of us would race autocross (not her) and we're pretty well versed in our hobby but also didn't talk about it in mixed company (because for most people it is boring as fuck). She wasn't willing to even try an open track day.

I think she finally married some dude with a fox body.

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u/lalajia 2h ago

They faked their ex's permission to use the last of their shared embryos for IVF implantation, without the ex's knowledge or consent.

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u/Boggie135 2h ago

Fucking hell

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u/TrashRacc96 2h ago

Kept shit talking my boyfriend then said they were joking

Sorry bud, just cause you (were) my bestie doesn't mean you can disrespect my future husband

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u/Icy_Basis_3552 2h ago

I was in love with herā€¦and it was never gonna be a thing. So I had to just stop.

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u/rubythroated_sparrow 1h ago

I was sick of listening to her complain about boys.

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u/DeraliousMaximousXXV 1h ago

Kept asking me dumb questions like this.

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u/RemarkableSea2555 1h ago

Their name. There's a first name out there that anyone I personally know who has it is a scumbag. I've been tracking this for over 4 decades. Not wrong yet.

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u/slp0923 1h ago

Texted out of the blue ā€œIā€™ll be ready for you to pick me up at 530 and take me to Costco.ā€ No previous request to take them. No please. No nothing.

I was trying to be the good guy and said that I couldnā€™t go that evening but could the next day. Had the balls to ask me to move my plans to take ā€˜em. Blocked immediately.

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u/4ofsix 1h ago

She didn't like my wife.

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u/Excellent-Part-96 1h ago

They slurped their coffee the whole time during breakfast. Also they kept dipping their bread in my freshly bought container of humus. I mean, donā€™t be a sociopath: spoon something into your plate. Donā€™t contaminate a whole container with bread crumbs. I knew right then and their we would never talk again

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u/brokenmessiah 1h ago

They couldn't pick up the vibe when people clearly don't wanna talk. Bruh if I got my earbuds in and you clearly see me watching a movie I don't wanna have a whole conversation lol

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u/helloneko1 1h ago

They wouldnā€™t shut up about their birthday month on social media.

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u/StuartPurrdoch 44m ago

Birthday adults give me Disney adult cringe.

(which is to say, not a problem to enjoy it and keep it to yourself. dragging in your entire social network and various strangers into it is just offputting for me. like going to a bar with a ā€œBirthday Girlā€ sash and crown and demanding gifts from non-family. itā€™s weird)

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u/Hallelujah33 30m ago

Birthday month is rookie numbers. I do birthday year, like a real champ.

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u/reticulatedbanana 49m ago

I was a single parent for a good long while, and as such, my holiday leave from work was always used up with childcare/school holidays.

They made a super snarky comment about me not being able to go on a night out because of being boring, and how theyā€™d had enough of my childcare ā€œexcuseā€.

F that.

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u/6isafraidof7cause789 43m ago

An older woman trying to be hip and in the "know" of things to try stay relevant..

That and lengthy wait time replies if the conversation didn't benefit themselves..

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u/Kiara_soul 6h ago

because the girl began to look like my mother in everything

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u/Grausam 5h ago

Oedipus? Is that you?

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u/ShylieF 3h ago

Known him since we were kids. One day last year we had a misunderstanding, he wrote me a novel of a text on how shity I am, soo.. fine. Bye

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u/alex_5506 2h ago

Being a Trumper

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u/miz_mantis 6h ago edited 1h ago

Told me "We can't live in fear" when I declined eating in an indoor restaurant in September of 2020. (in Florida, where you could do that)

Edited a typo

Edited second typo. It was 2020 not 2000! Sorry everyone!

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u/sherlip 5h ago

I'm confused. What was going on in September of 2000 that would make someone fearful of eating inside?

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u/KazulsPrincess 5h ago

Not petty

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u/MyAimSucc 2h ago

Because they voted for a felon to be president because ā€œhe doesnā€™t take shit from anyoneā€ Ok bye dumbass

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u/EggyolkChild 2h ago

He had a gap in his front teeth.

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u/American_Cakes_ 6h ago

They were taking to long to come out the house šŸ¤£

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u/whydaboo 5h ago

She refused to get vaccinated during COVID

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u/Doc719 6h ago

They shit their pants.

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u/Tsunopolis_ 6h ago

They stopped talking to me šŸ˜‚

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u/noone8everyone 5h ago

She was the petty one. A roommate asked for me to pay her, her half of our rental deposit after she returned from leaving the country. She sublet out her room to a crazy person that I had to live with for 3 months. I didn't get the deposit returned to me, instead I got a cleaning bill, even though I cleaned the house. Landlord was a lawyer. He knew college kids couldn't fight him.

I told her to f* off. She should have gotten the deposit back from the landlord before she left the country. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

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u/Buttertoes97 2h ago

For doing one thing I donā€™t like

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u/Apprehensive-Ad4244 2h ago

Always late every time we hung out, never rang to tell me, or apologised. Also always wanted help and support, but never cared about my struggles. A very one-sided friendship, so I let it die

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u/Fun-Window-3248 2h ago

She talked SO MUCH. I just couldnā€™t take it anymore :/

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u/Independent-Swan1508 1h ago

constantly late to every hangout even when they have a good excuse why they can't come yet.

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u/chikkinnuggitbukkit 1h ago

They asked me if I would move my fiance and I to the big city with them so their rent would be cheaper. I politely declined but theyā€™ve never invited me out ever since so Iā€™ve stopped trying.

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u/Boggie135 1h ago

They stopped talking to me in early 2020 and suddenly sent me a message last year like we last spoke only a few weeks ago

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u/StuartPurrdoch 54m ago

Only possible excuse is the longest of long-long covids

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u/Necessary-Suspect698 1h ago

Me and my former elementary school friend stoped talking to each other after getting into a disagreement about how many moons Jupiter had. I still sometimes wonder where he is today.

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u/Koren55 1h ago

They lied to me.

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u/Unlucky-External5648 1h ago

My sister only addresses me with nicknames. For like 5 years sheā€™d call me anything but my name. I spoke to her about it over and over. No changes. She texted me like 3 years ago addressing me with a pet name and i blocked her number and havenā€™t spoken to her since.

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u/Present_Biscotti7726 1h ago

They were my best friend and I realized at their wedding, after seeing them interact with their other friends, that I was pretty low on the totem pole.

I probably shouldnā€™t have, they were a good person, I just felt dumb and insecure after that.

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u/generatedinstyle 1h ago

I was sitting and eating lunch with them. They pulled out a jar of gerbers baby food and started eating from the jar in a very public place with judgey colleagues. They said it was for their sensitive stomach. Okay cool, but like why zero attempt to conceal your eating baby food. They were little sausages and he could have put them in a bag. It was so weird that was it for mea

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u/snips-fulcrum 1h ago

Person 1 bc she was annoying, petty, teacher's pet, stuck-up. she also hasnt answered my question (on whatsapp) which i asked her 24th september 2023, and has dm'ed me on insta since then

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u/ComisclyConnected 1h ago

I was able to read between the lines in our texts they we're attempting to make a "historical" home purchase, I know what happened in this story and I wanted nothing to do with him after that, yeah it might have been petty but I was not about to be made part his "story telling" he was going to do with this purchase.. nope! Not gunna happen here, I'm not part of this story!

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u/Croakerboo 1h ago

She started trying to shit talk people she knew I liked and trusted even after I said I did not agree with her opinion.

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u/Cheetodude625 1h ago

She made a joke about my speech impediment that I've had since I was a kid and I blocked her on Snapchat and Instagram as a result.

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u/wumsdi 1h ago

We were friends for years.

Someday I noticed that every time I asked/hinted her for her help being welcome, she did not react or refused.

I think I gave her lots of emotional and practical support. But there were only few occasions where she was ever able to return me any favour.

So we stopped meeting and discussed via messenger for weeks what friendship meant to us and why I felt a little bit hurt about this imbalance in our relationship.

I believe she was somewhat sorry about what happened, but she never explicitly told me so. Instead, she only defended her actions.

That's why I finally broke off contact with her.

It's petty, because one simple missing "Sorry" was in the end what made me do it.

I am still feeling conflicted about my decision.

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u/Bypass-March-2022 1h ago

He was my boyfriend. He always tried to impress waitresses either how important he thought he was. I found it embarrassing although I saw it as low self esteem.

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u/BobDolesSickMixtape 1h ago

She had a big head.

By which I mean, physically, it looked like her head was disproportionately large compared to her body. It weirded me out and I didn't like looking at her. So I ghosted her in middle school.

I never did tell her it was because she had a big head. Sorry, Celia.

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u/Bilburnn 57m ago

They were super arrogant but always typed in broken English and made no attempts to improve at any point. Just chatting with them online gave me actual headaches.

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u/overtly-Grrl 53m ago

Zyns. I vape (trying to quit) but this guy even kept it in when we kissed. No way thatā€™s going in my vagina.

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u/Maleficent_Sun_3075 46m ago

They had kids.

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u/josiebennett70 40m ago

White boomer woman who made it a point to let you know she was an editor on multiple occasions. She went into a BiPOC corner store to tell them their signage was wrong and they needed to redo it to take out the apostrophe. She genuinely thought she was doing them a favor by telling the cashier and was angry when the cashier didn't care that her expertise as an editor was a good thing.

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u/diialtone 38m ago

she told me, seemingly out of nowhere, that I have to get closed with god and make that a real priority in my life. i loved her so much, grew up knowing her my whole life, but the day she told me that was the last time i talked with her.

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u/Theycallmeahmed_ 36m ago

She ate with her mouth open

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u/panachi19 34m ago

Their voice made me wince.

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u/StrawbraryLiberry 33m ago

The pettiest one I remember is that I didn't like the way they texted.

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u/GodEmperorLetoDOS 32m ago

They told me I should be ashamed of calling out of work due to a bad winter storm warning. I was also correct in calling out.

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u/chefboyarde30 29m ago

They clearly didnā€™t put in effort in wanting me in my life so I stopped.

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u/Mediocre_Method_4683 25m ago

He was 46 and was still hoping to rebuild a relationship with his 24 year old ex girlfriend who had a baby with him.

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u/Bag_of_DIcksss 15m ago

I hated his name. It wasn't even his fault his name was Todd.

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u/jordenism 13m ago

they were waaay too agreeable. Any opinion I had, it was like they mirrored it and didnā€™t have any thoughts of their own

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u/goldandjade 8m ago

I was tired of them always complaining about the natural consequences of their own poor decisions.